Ideagasms

[Yoda]

Btw, Witch's book "the Orgasmic Diet" is on Amazon right now. What I've read of it so far, it is very interesting.

 

Itunes has removed Sex is Fun podcasts, but I found a link here:

 

http://archive-a02.libsyn.com/podcasts/29b...femalegspot.mp3

 

Haven't listened to the show yet.

 

Imo, I think ???'s advice is correct from a perspective of a high level yogi. But it's better to find a balance of moderation and enjoyment for most modern day yogis. If you are an average yogi but have high ambitions, it's better to get very serious about meditation practice and just leave energy cultivation/discipline practices at an easy going level.

[gendao]

Stephane got his techniques from Stephen Piccus's White Tiger Tantra. Stephen P's dvd is much more detailed and apparently Stephane's is incomplete.

 

I also thought that Stephane appeared emotionally imbalanced in the dvd, which is a perception reinforced in my personal dealing with him. I hate to be negative or gossipy, but his behavior and some of his statements in his newsletters call for a warning about this guy. He preaches compassion but then is rude, arrogant and puts other people down, including me in the context of a email communication problem, with no apology or rational response when i confronted him on it.

 

In his newsletter on how to be a pick up artist, he said that if you see some guys not getting anywhere with girls go up to the group and say. ' isn't it cute that these guys are like little puppies humping your leg.' Then the guys are supposed to go away and you can stand there like the big man, according to his advice.

Well, I believe Stephane was raised by a bunch of feminist women...who trained him to be a hardcore AFC doormat with women. Obviously, this backfired immensely in his youth and he got his full share of abuse from women taking full advantage of his nice guy AFCism. Finally, he found the SC and his nuts dropped...

 

So, I believe he's simply become as hard as he NEEDS to be to deal with today's spoiled granddaughters of 2nd-wave feminism out in the REAL WORLD. Although, I wouldn't doubt if he also overcompensates some as a revolt from his AFC youth - and sometimes misdirects this towards harmless men.

 

I also would find it somewhat questionable businesswise if he is simply remarketing Steve Piccus's material...unless it's with Steve's consent.

[LuckyDMC]

Hi All.

I was trying to find something else, and came across this topic. I am fortunate enough to enjoy this with my wife, but the downside, the morning after she is extremely dehydrated, and gets a headache from this. Has anyone else had this problem, and/or have any solutions for solving it?

 

Thanks,

Lucky

[Taoist81]

Hi All.

I was trying to find something else, and came across this topic. I am fortunate enough to enjoy this with my wife, but the downside, the morning after she is extremely dehydrated, and gets a headache from this. Has anyone else had this problem, and/or have any solutions for solving it?

 

Thanks,

Lucky

 

You should always make sure she drinks a good deal of water and, preferably, an electrolyte replenishing fluid (like gatorade) afterwards.

[Pranaman]

In the White Tiger DVD Stephane is actually in it learning from Piccus. Stephane's vid is incomplete. With chi loss, I believe that occurs, but Piccus also pumps chi into the girl, and also claims that the whole process floods the body and clears the channels.

[deoxyribose]

My experience as a squirting woman:

 

When I first started having sex, I didn't know how to have an orgasm, so I got some books, like the Hyte Report for Women and The Joy of Sex and the like. I learned about both kinds of orgams in these books and how to attain them.

 

The clitoral one was fairly straight forward and then eventually the other one came along without much trying. I just had to find the right angle to situate my pelvis during intercourse and depending on the curvature of my current boyfriends penis, sometimes it was harder to find and other times it required almost no work on my part.

 

I read somewhere that 75% of women have G-spot orgasms, it doesn't sound to me like they are rare.

 

I've also had the dehydration issue but only with the hand method taught in the videos mentioned here. If I just have the orgasms during intercourse, I am not forcing all this fluid out continuously, and the problem doesn't exist.

Edited November 12, 2008 by deoxyribose

[Guest artform]

Edited November 13, 2008 by artform

[Smile]

Looks like Stephane went a little bit crazy and his girls left him:

http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/200...-lies-revealed/

[gendao]

Looks like Stephane went a little bit crazy and his girls left him:

http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/200...-lies-revealed/

Doesn't surprise me.

 

I was on his mailing list and he recently sent out a mass email detailing a huge drama with his Polish gf's dad tragically committing suicide over them. Of course, the whole point of his email was not any real empathy, but to absolve himself of any blame whatsoever (but was he really trying to convince his readers or himself that?)... Well, I sent them a philosophical semi-condolence email back...and they quickly responded with a very rude, snappy reply!

 

At that point I realized that this dude is really a phony, self-deluded egomaniac who misuses New Age spirituality to conveniently rationalize everything he does to himself and others.

Stephane would justify his drug use with being enlightened, saying that because he was of higher consciousness, the drugs would not drag him down.

Not that that really surprised me, either...

 

But if your gf's dad's suicide can't pull you out of spiritual denial, I don't know what can???

I have no more human karma

Oh, I think his attitude and life says much differently... Edited December 11, 2008 by vortex

[Smile]

Interesting...

His ex-girl Ghita has a new site: http://www.montrealangelwings.com/

Edited December 11, 2008 by Smile

[Pranaman]

in some forms of tantra, doesn't the man drink the woman's "yin liqueor" to balance out him giving her his yang energy?

[mantis]

in some forms of tantra, doesn't the man drink the woman's "yin liqueor" to balance out him giving her his yang energy?

 

yeah i think that is what vajroli mudra is for

[markern]

Well, I believe Stephane was raised by a bunch of feminist women...who trained him to be a hardcore AFC doormat with women. Obviously, this backfired immensely in his youth and he got his full share of abuse from women taking full advantage of his nice guy AFCism. Finally, he found the SC and his nuts dropped...

 

So, I believe he's simply become as hard as he NEEDS to be to deal with today's spoiled granddaughters of 2nd-wave feminism out in the REAL WORLD. Although, I wouldn't doubt if he also overcompensates some as a revolt from his AFC youth - and sometimes misdirects this towards harmless men.

 

I also would find it somewhat questionable businesswise if he is simply remarketing Steve Piccus's material...unless it's with Steve's consent.

 

 

I get your point but contrary to a lot of PUA wisdom it is not necesary to be an ashole to women to be extreemly succesfull with them. One of the most respected piskup artists Juggler teaches a style of pickup wich is very genuine and nice while as effective or more than a lot of the other rather sinister PUA material. Check it out at:

 

charismaarts.com

[gendao]

I get your point but contrary to a lot of PUA wisdom it is not necesary to be an ashole to women to be extreemly succesfull with them. One of the most respected piskup artists Juggler teaches a style of pickup wich is very genuine and nice while as effective or more than a lot of the other rather sinister PUA material. Check it out at:

 

charismaarts.com

I don't think PU tells guys to be a-holes - just not to accept crap and show a backbone. That's simply being a self-respecting human, not an "a-hole."

 

Remember, a whole generation of us post-feminist men were misguided to place women up on pedestals and reverently kowtow to them...and suffered severe reprecussions for that. The problem with most AFCs then is not being a-holes, but being far too nice and spineless...

 

But I think most mature guys can find the happy medium after a while. And ultimately, women determine what they get by what they reward with sex. So if they reward a-holes with sex, then more men will become a-holes. If they reward nice guys with sex, more will become nice guys. It's all a Pavlovian feedback loop where supply will meet the demand.

 

But, if you read Smile's link - it turns out Stephane wildly-exaggerated his "success" with women, anyways. Yet another "Wizard of Oz" hiding behind his own hype machine...

Edited December 12, 2008 by vortex

[sean]

Interesting...

His ex-girl Ghita has a new site: http://www.montrealangelwings.com/

Hehe... Lezlie build that site for Ghita. They are in LA with SteveP right now plotting new shenanigans.

 

We all had unrequested front row seats to Stephane's downward spiral. Not pretty.

 

On a good day he makes RJ look like the Dalai Lama. On a bad day ... well, for what it's worth I suspect that Stephane may be a true sociopath. I mean it. I have stories you would not even believe. Scary scary stuff. I worked with Stephane closely every day for over a year. He even moved right next to me for several months in Costa Rica.

 

Regardless of my sympathy for the guy, for he is in truly in a lot of pain, I can't in good conscience recommend anything other than running in the opposite direction of him, his material and his groupies. To anyone who is even remotely fooled by the spiritual facade of iG, I urge you to find a coherent alternative. Anything. What Stephane needs is drug and alcohol rehabilitation and real psychiatric treatment, not more money and encouragement.

 

Sean

 

PS -

 

I get your point but contrary to a lot of PUA wisdom it is not necesary to be an ashole to women to be extreemly succesfull with them. One of the most respected piskup artists Juggler teaches a style of pickup wich is very genuine and nice while as effective or more than a lot of the other rather sinister PUA material. Check it out at:

Juggler is a really great guy. Haven't met him personally yet but I'm good friends with his buddy Chad and have seen his stuff.

 

I have a lot of respect for DavidD as well.

[Pero]

Juggler is a really great guy. Haven't met him personally yet but I'm good friends with his buddy Chad and have seen his stuff.

 

Yeah, Juggler! That's who I meant when in one thread I mentioned I like the Joker, so embarassing.

I actually remembered the correct name some time later but forgot which thread it was.

[yintherapy]

The complete video is now up on the ideagasms website:

 

http://www.ideagasms.net/historygasms/

 

Some of that massage seems a little painful!!

[Pero]

bump

[lezlie]

What Stephane needs is drug and alcohol rehabilitation and real psychiatric treatment, not more money and encouragement.

 

Agreed.

[Taiji Bum]

I wish I would have read this thread before I listened to his relationship advice MP3 last week. I figured a PUA with a chakra angle couldn't be that bad but the guy is pretty bad.... actually he's pretty sick. After listening to him I was so disgusted I looked him up online and found all the evil stuff about him. Crud... now how do I erase all his evil funk from my mind.....

[Lightbringer]

I wish I would have read this thread before I listened to his relationship advice MP3 last week. I figured a PUA with a chakra angle couldn't be that bad but the guy is pretty bad.... actually he's pretty sick. After listening to him I was so disgusted I looked him up online and found all the evil stuff about him. Crud... now how do I erase all his evil funk from my mind.....

 

I've only recently found Stephane to be needlessly rude. He had a lot of wisdom that people found offensive and I think that's what had created this strangely large ex-iGers subculture of the PUA community. I imagine it's simply that he kept attracting people who were spiritually static and looking for people who told them what they wanted to hear whether it was about sex, circles, etc. I've experienced it enough myself to empathize with him on that one. However now he seems to really have an issue with emotional stability. I think the man's pushing himself too hard to reach enlightenment and it's driving him crazy. It is the kind of path that once you start down on, you better be able to follow through and I wonder if he is. Maybe next lifetime, but it seems he's reached a point where he preaches rather than practicing.

 

As for Ghita and Amy-Jo, ew. Steph may be crazy, but those two don't exactly give off good vibes. They just make me think of those validation-seeking girls you see in clubs. I can't imagine a lot of useful info coming from those two. Especially when someone so actively hates on another person, there's clearly some attempts to validate themselves going on there.

 

On the squirting front of things, my girlfriend has been doing it for two years now. I think her first orgasm was a squirting orgasm. It's a neat gauge of personal progress actually. It really made apparent that spiritual and emotional work is what's required for amazing sex. Amusingly, my girlfriend is quite overweight so I couldn't effectively massage her. We would just talk out issues instead (after all, the emotional aspect of things is what manifests as physical blockages). Now she has finally dealt with the issues keeping her from being healthy, and as that's happened she's started really enjoying herself. I would rate orgasms before as above average, but now it's quite a show. Apparently it's as good as it looks too.

[shontonga]

I wish I would have read this thread before I listened to his relationship advice MP3 last week. I figured a PUA with a chakra angle couldn't be that bad but the guy is pretty bad.... actually he's pretty sick. After listening to him I was so disgusted I looked him up online and found all the evil stuff about him. Crud... now how do I erase all his evil funk from my mind.....

 

OOoOooOI Know!!!

 

 

First ...

Take it out and smudge it,

then soak it in some salt water, make sure you use pure sea salt or the pink Himalayan verity,

then leave it in the moonlight when the planets are correctly aligned

and then in the sunlight ... but don't do those last two at the same time, use extreme caution!

Things get tough when left in the sun for to long, remember You Don't want "Brain Jerky"!

If that happens though it's ok, just take your fingers, add some pure olive oil,

and massage it a little or a tenderizer/hammer works wonders also!

Then bless it after reintroducing it in the four directions

and naming it for clearer communications

and snugly planting a nicely terminated clear quartz crystal into it's center.

(don't mind the aliens talking to you, they are friendly... sometimes)

You may get a shock from this but thats ok

your pain center of the brain should probably be unfunctioning still?

Then just Plop it back in and shut the lid!

 

WaaLaa! Beautiful!

 

Peace Dudes!

 

Shon

 

*Um, The elements of truth that may have been abused in this post are not meant to offend

or steer anyone to or away from any modality of choice ... If you knew me you would see

that this is just a normal day at work for me, lol??? Your lucky this is a free consultation!

 

and Darin, U Must Know by now not to take my advice, right???

Leave the brain as it is...

It will all be ok!

LOL Hope I didn't add to it now!

 

*this post has been cut down to 1/3rd of it's original blasphemy for all of your convenience!

[Starjumper]

Here is a good page that has an embedded preview of Stephane's DVD to save you the step of downloading it. I'm very pleased with this DVD.

 

Dang! I don't know if I wanted to see that. Maybe you should put a pornography warning up with that kind of thing as there could be children viewing.

 

Anyway, as far as that video is concerned I think the whole thing is stupid because that isn't ejaculation, she is PISSING, urinating.

[Pero]

Dang! I don't know if I wanted to see that. Maybe you should put a pornography warning up with that kind of thing as there could be children viewing.

 

Anyway, as far as that video is concerned I think the whole thing is stupid because that isn't ejaculation, she is PISSING, urinating.

 

Why Starjumper, I didn't know you had a vagina.

[Lightbringer]

Anyway, as far as that video is concerned I think the whole thing is stupid because that isn't ejaculation, she is PISSING, urinating.

 

The same muscles that are used for ejaculation are used for urination as well. Same hole too (urethra). So I'm positive you can't possibly tell the difference from a video. You would need to either feel, smell or taste it to know it's very different from urine. I can't assert that she is in fact ejaculating for the same reason, but I do know it's possible as I see it almost every day. Perhaps this feat is simply shining a light on your own insecurities?