I've ran out of words...

[mwight]

Please don't flag it on youtube Darin as I love that vid. I'm honestly not sure how this has gotten so blown out of proportion. And that's not a smutty joke!!

Yes I would advise all members to not view the vid. And no that's not a smutty joke either!!

 

I didn't see anything that wasn't a tasteful nude in that video, nothing erotic or pornographic. The music had my skin crawling but other than that it was interesting. I am still curious as to its meaning, though. Is there some deeper meaning behind the choice of photos?

[Patrick Brown]

[Patrick Brown]

If I am the only one that finds it offensive then it is obviously my problem. Sean doesn't mind it and it is his site so just leave it up. I'll do some thinking about it this weekend.

Yes Darin did 'the Dirty'.

 

 

Well I'm fucked off now

 

...

 

hey you try and help people

 

...

 

why did I come back to this fucking hole?

 

Really pissed off.

[Taiji Bum]

Patrick, are you going out of your way to be a victim here? If you believe in something stand your ground! Everyone including Sean is siding with you. Even the girl I am dating and madly in love with doesn't see anything wrong with what you posted. I was talking to her about it and I probably dont like it solely out of habit. I spent so many years trying to avoid anything sexual so I could retain essence that I have some odd ingrained ideas. The problem is mine here, not yours.

 

Edit: The video is no longer available and NO, I didn't flag it.

Edited November 8, 2008 by DarinHamel

[三江源]

Darin, please dont leave!

 

Like some others have stated here, I think these video's are not relevant to this board and are lame.

 

 

There is no contest between your presence on the board and some lame videos that can be seen elsewhere on sites that are specifically for lame videos.

[SiliconValley]

Stay Darin ... Like your energies here ...

 

 

In this world whose nature is like a dream, there is place for praise and blame, but in the ultimate Reality of the Dharmakaya which is far beyond the senses and the discriminating mind, what is there to praise? O thou most Wise!

Edited November 9, 2008 by SiliconValley

[mwight]

yeah dude your one of a few people here who actually practice, and not just talk about it. Please stay.

[Taiji Bum]

ok... now I am a little embarrassed.... I'm staying.... just call me "Prude Dude" from now on.....

[Patrick Brown]

ok... now I am a little embarrassed.... I'm staying.... just call me "Prude Dude" from now on.....

So are you celibate or not Mr Guru?

 

No! No what? Go fuck and get your redemption but it will be hard and that's not cock!! Hey that one got fucked, if you know what I mean.

 

Yes it was you because...

 

You think your clever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

That will be all the semen backing up to the head but hey man your a fucking genius so be my guest / victim.

[三江源]

ok... now I am a little embarrassed.... I'm staying.... just call me "Prude Dude" from now on.....

 

Darin, I was going to say to you before now, but didnt take the time to do so, that I think your fiancee is a very fortunate woman to have you as her partner. What you say about your sexuality and your way with her is ... what's a word for what I mean.. ah, I dont know... so .. very lovely!!

[Patrick Brown]

Darin, I was going to say to you before now, but didnt take the time to do so, that I think your fiancee is a very fortunate woman to have you as her partner. What you say about your sexuality and your way with her is ... what's a word for what I mean.. ah, I dont know... so .. very lovely!!

[Taiji Bum]

Darin, I was going to say to you before now, but didnt take the time to do so, that I think your fiancee is a very fortunate woman to have you as her partner. What you say about your sexuality and your way with her is ... what's a word for what I mean.. ah, I dont know... so .. very lovely!!

Thanks. She's cool with the no sex before marriage thing but she still thinks I am a little prudish. She still loves me though and I wish she was my fiancee but she is still just my girlfriend.

 

Patrick, how many times here and in PM's do I have to say I was wrong and you were right? And seriously... I didn't flag your video. Like I said in the PM, I may be a prude but I am not a liar.

 

As for me and sex... I am chaste, not celebate.

[Patrick Brown]

Thanks. She's cool with the no sex before marriage thing but she still thinks I am a little prudish. She still loves me though and I wish she was my fiancee but she is still just my girlfriend.

 

Patrick, how many times here and in PM's do I have to say I was wrong and you were right? And seriously... I didn't flag your video. Like I said in the PM, I may be a prude but I am not a liar.

 

As for me and sex... I am chaste, not celebate.

It was you.

 

Like a cunt.

[Taiji Bum]

It was you.

 

Like a cunt.

[Patrick Brown]

Thanks. She's cool with the no sex before marriage thing but she still thinks I am a little prudish. She still loves me though and I wish she was my fiancee but she is still just my girlfriend.

 

Patrick, how many times here and in PM's do I have to say I was wrong and you were right? And seriously... I didn't flag your video. Like I said in the PM, I may be a prude but I am not a liar.

 

As for me and sex... I am chaste, not celebate.

like a cunt

[mwight]

Thanks. She's cool with the no sex before marriage thing but she still thinks I am a little prudish. She still loves me though and I wish she was my fiancee but she is still just my girlfriend.

 

Sorry really its none of my business, and I think its really awesome of you to wait until marriage, a truly noble thing indeed.

 

But, I would never marry someone if I didn't get to test drive the goods first. What if she is really bad in bed or you guys have no sexual chemistry. What if you run into a "your too small for her" or "shes too large for you" type scenario. Thats something you can't tell until after your married, then its too late.

 

I had an experience where I met this really awesome girl, but she was a cold fish in bed, also I got more pleasure from masturbation then I did making love with her. I loved her very much but eventually wound up cheating out of sexual frustration. I can't imagine marrying her first, that would have been a major problem.

 

I think now celibacy is probably the best path for me, relationships are great but I don't think I can find a female who would want to live in poverty and meditate 15 hours a day.

 

Anywho I hope I haven't offended you by throwing my $0.02 at you.

 

peace

Edited November 9, 2008 by mwight

[Pietro]

So are you celibate or not Mr Guru?

 

No! No what? Go fuck and get your redemption but it will be hard and that's not cock!! Hey that one got fucked, if you know what I mean.

 

Yes it was you because...

 

You think your clever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

That will be all the semen backing up to the head but hey man your a fucking genius so be my guest / victim.

 

Patrick, I really don't think Darin has flagged the video.

I think your anger is misdirected. It is ok to be frustrated, and maybe you were pushing the envelope. Not here, but on youtube. There are plenty of sites where you can post a video with nudity, sites that have no problem with it whatsoever. But please do not assume that because Darin had a problem with it here, he would naturally have a problem with it somwhere else.

 

Prude Dude, do you know the latin phrase "omnia munda mundis". It means everything is clean for those that are clean. It's standard knowledge in the church of Rome. If your girlfriend is clean inside she will see everything as clean. Maybe you needed a strong polarity in the past, to change your sexual life. But things might have changed. Now you have a girlfriend, and she seem to be ok both with your weird sexuality , and with some more natural videos. So maybe she could guide you .

 

Once the process is complete and you two are completely free, can we have the videos of you two having sex on the beach?

 

But, I would never marry someone if I didn't get to test drive the goods first. What if she is really bad in bed or you guys have no sexual chemistry. What if you run into a "your too small for her" or "shes too large for you" type scenario. Thats something you can't tell until after your married, then its too late.

thumbs up for mwight!

I too had a girlfriend which I dearly loved but with which the real chemistry was out of bed.

[Desert Eagle]

like a cunt

 

how about if we flag all your videos? will that make you feel better?

 

maybe I'm wrong but my impression of you is maybe you drink too much. (based on the liquor bottles you posted earlier)

Edited November 9, 2008 by Desert Eagle

[mYTHmAKER]

IMHO

Patrick you are way out of line and immature to say the least.

I don't mind cursing where appropriate, but you seem to be like a child going for shock value.

Your videos, porn or not porn, really not the issue, are not suitable to this forum.

Edited November 9, 2008 by mYTHmAKER

[Apech]

Darin,

 

I would like to join with those who celebrate (is that the right word?) how you are.

 

How odd that those who say they want no restrictions and openness turn out so intolerant. While you who call yourself prudish are prepared to be tolerant and forgiving. Ironic eh?

 

For me I think there is a need to distinguish between whatever school or discipline we may personally belong to and this board - which is as stated quite open to ideas, disagreements and so on and operates under Sean's rules. I enjoy the tangential threads and disagreements but I don't like the abuse (including provocative swear words) but I'll put up with them if it means this place keeps bubbling along. In my understanding harsh speech is most harmful the speaker as it generate disharmony in their energetic body and creates seeds for negative karma. If we were to ask people to change their bevaiour it would be to protect them, not to condemn them. I notice that some are asking for a separate sub forum for cultivation - and if this happened it would disappoint me because I like the stream of consciousness and don't want things boxed off.

 

Here's hoping everyone stays.

[sean]

Patrick is extraordinarily aware of the no insult policy, has been suspended TWICE now for blatantly disregarding it, has been on the verge of suspension since the day he came back for his third helping and now is outright and shamelessly hurling direct insults at another beloved member of this forum.

 

Later dude.

 

Sean

[steve]

Darin -

I may differ with you on the definition of porn vs art and my tolerance level my be different.

That makes very little difference to either of us. The majority may define the "norm" but thank goodness there is room for diversity.

I respect you for your commitment to your values and your honesty.

I'm glad you've decided to stay on the forum.

I almost signed off recently myself.

Sean is what kept me here.

Patrick is very full of himself - he has a lot of work to do.

[Aetherous]

Patrick,

 

What's your problem?

[Stigweard]

Darin -

I may differ with you on the definition of porn vs art and my tolerance level my be different.

That makes very little difference to either of us. The majority may define the "norm" but thank goodness there is room for diversity.

I respect you for your commitment to your values and your honesty.

I'm glad you've decided to stay on the forum.

I almost signed off recently myself.

Sean is what kept me here.

Patrick is very full of himself - he has a lot of work to do.

 

 

It would be a shame to see folks like you and Darin 'sign off' ... I appreciate every post you make.

[idquest]

Patrick,

 

What's your problem?

 

 

Isn't it clear? Alcoholism.