I don't want to pray to a deity that's transactional or needs buttering up. I like the concept that prayers that seem to start by praising God are really meant to have us focus on the Greatness, Beauty and Awesomeness of the world. To give thanks for our lives and all the good that goes on around us. I like Rabbi Nachman's practice of having a personal relationship with God; talking regularly, as to friend, loving creator, cheap psychologist.
One difference, imo, between magic and religion is the focus on God's will, not ours. In religion we can petition but we accept what we get. We can ask with humility and hope but we accept that the Universe will decide and keep going the best that we can.
So.. for me, asking for something in prayer means putting my mind to what I like in the world, earth, sky, grass, lakes, rivers, netflix, friends, family, breath.. Give thanks for it all and my life. Throw a desire in there, petition. As I've gotten older, I rarely ask. Que Sera, sera, whatever will be will be. Which in my tradition is kind of one of God's names.