Cobie Posted August 16, 2024 (edited) edit: old title was āWhat is ānon-dualityā?ā But Iāve given up on Buddhism. New title: Ā PostĀ in a way understandable to a 5 year old.Ā Ā å«å¾·ä¹åļ¼ęÆę¼čµ¤åć han2 de2 zhi1 hou4 , bi3 yu2 chi4 zi3Ā He who has in himself abundantly the attributes (of the Dao) is like an infant. (DDJ Ch. 55) Ā edit #2: again a new title, āthread for posts that are easy to understand by most peopleā (and I mean āmost peopleā generic, not just most people on the forum). Ā Edited August 25, 2024 by Cobie 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sherman Krebbs Posted August 16, 2024 itĀ means you areĀ one human bean.Ā your thoughts and your body and your feelings are all part of one amazing thing--you.Ā Ā itĀ means that you are supposed to keep acting like yourĀ five year old self, without worrying too much about it.Ā 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
S:C Posted August 16, 2024 (edited) 2 hours ago, Cobie said: The title says it all. Please explain it to me in a way understandable to a 5 year old.Ā Ā Ā Hide contents å«å¾·ä¹åļ¼ęÆę¼čµ¤åć han2 de2 zhi1 hou4 , bi3 yu2 chi4 zi3Ā He who has in himself abundantly the attributes (of the Dao) is like an infant. (DDJ Ch. 55) Ā My understanding: The ideal of the divine/light/energy/union/dissolution/unreasonable happiness [placeholderā¦] is to be found and recognized in the real present moment and not in a distant far away different layer of ārealityā.Ā Un-separable. Giving up on absolutes. Edited August 16, 2024 by S:C 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 16, 2024 (edited)  On 16/08/2024 at 11:50 PM, Sherman Krebbs said: it means you are one human bean.  your thoughts and your body and your feelings are all part of one amazing thing--you. Spot on!  Quote  ⦠you are supposed to keep acting like your five year old self, without worrying too much about it.  I love this reply.    Edited August 20, 2024 by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 16, 2024 (edited) Ā 2 hours ago, S:C said: ā¦Ā not in a distant far away different layer of ārealityā ⦠What? Ā Ā Itās not in a āGALAXY FAR FAR AWAYā. (cry emoji)Ā Ā Ā Quote ⦠in the real present moment ⦠ok then.Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Edited August 17, 2024 by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 16, 2024 (edited) Ā 1 hour ago, Sherman Krebbs said: ⦠itĀ means that you are supposed to keep acting like yourĀ five year old self, without worrying too much about it.Ā Ā Ā @ChiDragonĀ (you will not like this ) this is the real meaning of ē”ēŗ ! ē”ēŗ wu2 wei2 - not behavingĀ as a ācivilĀ servantā, but being your natural self.Ā Ā Ā Edited August 16, 2024 by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChiDragon Posted August 18, 2024 This is only the act of wu wei. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 18, 2024 10 hours ago, ChiDragon said: This is only the act of wu wei. What else is there?Ā Ā Ā Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stirling Posted August 18, 2024 We are used to seeing things from the perspective of being aĀ separate person in a world of objects who moves in time and space. Ā There can be a permanent shift of perspective where instead there is an endless, infiniteĀ field of un-labeled phenomena fluxing here, now, lacking space, time, or anything that has existence of its own or could be labeled. Ā One way to describe it, amongst countless, inadequate ways of labeling it,Ā is that this is seeing the "non-dual" nature of reality. It looks mostly the same in both perspectives except that the salient quality that pervades all of it is this "non-duality" orĀ "emptiness".Ā 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 18, 2024 Ā 16 minutes ago, snowymountains said: ā¦Ā the non-dual pov too has its pluses and minuses. Lol, did you think that through? Ā Ā 1 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 18, 2024 (edited) 15 minutes ago, stirling said: ⦠seeing things from the perspective of being aĀ separate person in a world of objects who moves in time and space. Ā Thatās my external world ānormalā. Ā Quote ⦠an endless, infiniteĀ field of un-labeled phenomena fluxing here, now, lacking space, time, or anything that has existence of its own or could be labeled. Ā Thatās my internal world ānormalā. Ā Ā Edited August 18, 2024 by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
snowymountains Posted August 18, 2024 9 minutes ago, Cobie said: Ā Lol, did you think that through? Ā Ā Ā I did, is there a reason to copy it into a different thread? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 18, 2024 1 minute ago, snowymountains said: I did, Ā Try again. Ā 1 minute ago, snowymountains said: is there a reason to copy it into a different thread? Yes, this is my thread.Ā Ā Ā Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stirling Posted August 18, 2024 2 minutes ago, Cobie said: Righto, thatās my internal world ānormalā. Ā If you have insight, it is your "external" world too, or, to be more clear, there ISN'T an internal or external world... that is just another duality that falls away.Ā Ā 2 minutes ago, Cobie said: Ā Yeah... not 5 year old friendly. Sorry. How about this: Ā The relative view and absolute view see the same thing, the same "world", except the "non-dual" absolute sees through the illusion of perceivingĀ a landscape of separateness, orĀ "dualities". 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
snowymountains Posted August 18, 2024 Just now, Cobie said: Ā Try again. Ā Thanks, but it's a no Ā Just now, Cobie said: Ā Ā Yes, this is my thread.Ā Ā Ā Ā It's not the thread I participated in though. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 18, 2024 Just now, stirling said: Ā If you have insight, it is your "external" world too, or, to be more clear, there ISN'T an internal or external world... that is just another duality that falls away.Ā Ā Ā Yeah... not 5 year old friendly. Sorry. How about this: Ā The relative view and absolute view see the same thing, the same "world", except the "non-dual" absolute sees through the illusion of perceivingĀ a landscape of separateness, orĀ "dualities". I think itās actually the other way round. When insight is gained one realises what is ārealā (the external world) and whatās not ārealā (oneās internal world). Ā Ā Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stirling Posted August 18, 2024 For there to be an inside or outside "world" there would have to be a "duality", as well as a separate observer to own that internal "world". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 18, 2024 (edited) 14 minutes ago, stirling said: For there to be an inside or outside "world" there would have to be a ādualityā, ⦠ Yes, itās a ādualityā. Ā Quote ⦠as well as a separate observer to own that internal "world". Yes, itāsĀ called āmeā!Ā Ā Ā Ā Edited August 18, 2024 by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChiDragon Posted August 19, 2024 On 8/16/2024 at 3:38 PM, Cobie said: Ā Ā Ā @ChiDragonĀ (you will not like this ) this is the real meaning of ē”ēŗ ! ē”ēŗ wu2 wei2 - not behavingĀ as a ācivilĀ servantā, but being your natural self.Ā Ā Ā Wu wei is not being your natural self,Ā Ā but "being your natural self" is being Wu wei! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 20, 2024 (edited) On 20/08/2024 at 12:15 AM, ChiDragon said: Wu wei is not being your natural self,Ā Ā but "being your natural self" is being Wu wei! Nice one. Ā As you said before (see I listenĀ Ā ), ē”ēŗ wu2 wei2 (in the DDJ) means - do not interfere with nature, do not force things to happen. So thatās a much wider meaning which includes ābeing yourselfā. Ā Ā Edited August 20, 2024 by Cobie 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mark Foote Posted August 21, 2024 On 8/16/2024 at 12:42 PM, Cobie said: Ā PostĀ in a way understandable to a 5 year old.Ā Ā å«å¾·ä¹åļ¼ęÆę¼čµ¤åć han2 de2 zhi1 hou4 , bi3 yu2 chi4 zi3Ā He who has in himself abundantly the attributes (of the Dao) is like an infant. (DDJ Ch. 55) Ā ... Now we understand what is meant by concentrating the ch'i, but what are the resulting benefits to the body? Our answer is that this has already been explained by Lao tzu when he says, "In concentrating your ch'i and becoming soft, can you be like an infant?" ... The infant's body is pure yang. Pure yang means that the ch'i is abundant. When the ch'i is abundant, then the blood is sufficient and the sinews are soft. Soft sinews are the special characteristic of the infant.Ā If people who are not far from death are to have any hope of returning to infancy, it is only through concentrating the ch'i and becoming soft.... (Ā āMaster Chengās Thirteen Chapters on Tāai-Chi Chāuanā, Cheng Man-Chāing trans. Douglas Wile, pp 11-12) Ā Ā And now something of the how, maybe for ages 13 and up: Ā The classic literature of Tai Chi appears to identify the ligaments of the body as a source of activity. Ā The literature describes three levels in the development of āchāiā, a word that literally translates as ābreathā but in practice is taken to refer to a fundamental energy of the body, and each of the three levels has three stages. Ā The stages of the first level are: Ā ā⦠relaxing the ligaments from the shoulder to the wristā; āfrom the hip joint to the heelā; āfrom the sacrum to the headtopā.Ā Ā Ā (āThree Levelsā from āCheng Tzuās Thirteen Treatises on Taāi Chi Chuanā, Cheng Man Chāing, tr. Benjamin Pang Jeng Lo and Martin Inn, Ā© 1985 Juliana T. Cheng, p 77-78) Ā Ā Unlike the contraction and relaxation of muscles, the stretch and resile of ligaments canāt be voluntarily controlled.Ā The muscles across the joints can, however, be relaxed in such a way as to allow the natural stretch and resile of ligamentsāthat would seem to be the meaning of the advice to ārelax the ligamentsā.Ā Ā The stages of the second level are: Ā āsinking chāi to the tan tāienā (a point below and behind the navel); āthe chāi reaches the arms and legsā; āthe chāi moves through the sacrum (wei lu) to the top of the head (ni wan)ā.Ā Ā Ā (ibid) Ā Tai Chāi master Cheng Man Chāing advised that the chāi will collect at the tan-tāien until it overflows into the tailbone and transits to the top of the head, but he warned against any attempt to force the flow. Ā Omori Sogen cautioned similarly:  ⦠It may be the least trouble to say as a general precaution that strength should be allowed to come to fullness naturally as one becomes proficient in sitting.Ā We should sit so that our energy increases of itself and brims over instead of putting physical pressure on the lower abdomen by force.Ā Ā Ā (āAn Introduction to Zen Training: A Translation of Sanzen Nyumonā, Omori Sogen, tr. Dogen Hosokawa and Roy Yoshimoto, Tuttle Publishing, Ā© Daihonzen Chozen-ji; p 59) Ā Ā I would posit that the patterns in the development of chāi reflect involuntary activity of the body generated in the stretch of ligaments. There is, in addition, a possible mechanism of support for the spine from the displacement of the fascia behind the spine, a displacement that can be effected by pressure generated in the abdominal cavity and that may quite possibly depend on a push on the fascia behind the sacrum by the bulk of the extensor muscles, as they contract (see myĀ Kinesthesiology of Fascial Support).Ā Ā The final level in the development of chāi concerns āchinā.Ā According to the classics, āchin comes from the ligamentsā (āThree Levelsā from āCheng Tzuās Thirteen Treatises on Taāi Chi Chuanā, Cheng Man Chāing, tr. Benjamin Pang Jeng Lo and Martin Inn, Ā© 1985 Juliana T. Cheng, p 77-78).Ā Ā The three stages of the final level are: Ā ātāing chin, listening to or feeling strengthā; ācomprehension of chinā; āomnipotenceā.Ā Ā (ibid) Ā Ā Another translator rendered the last stage above as āperfect clarityā (āMaster Chengās Thirteen Chapters on Tāai-Chi Chāuanā, Ā© 1982 Douglas Wile, p 57). In my estimation, āperfect clarityā is āthe pureness of (oneās) mindā that Gautama associated with āthe cessation of inbreathing and outbreathingā in the fourth concentration. Ā The Tai Chi classics emphasize relaxation. For me, calm is also required with regard to the stretch of ligaments, if āautomatic movementā is to be realized.Ā The stretch of a ligament prior to strain is small (6%), and I would say that automatic movement is only initiated at the edge of the range.Ā Ā Cheng Man Chāing mentioned a Chinese description of seated meditation, āstraighten the chest and sit precariouslyāāI think that also speaks to the necessity of calm (ibid, p 21). Ā In my experience, āautomaticā activity in the movement of breath can at times depend on the relaxation of particular muscle groups and the exercise of calm with regard to the stretch of particular ligaments. Ā I believe that a pattern in the circulation of āautomaticā activity can develop, especially when a bent-knee posture or carriage is maintained over a period of time. Ā (Appendix--A Way of Living) 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
doc benway Posted August 24, 2024 On 8/16/2024 at 3:42 PM, Cobie said: edit: old title was āWhat is ānon-dualityā?ā But Iāve given up on Buddhism. Ā PostĀ in a way understandable to a 5 year old.Ā Ā å«å¾·ä¹åļ¼ęÆę¼čµ¤åć han2 de2 zhi1 hou4 , bi3 yu2 chi4 zi3Ā He who has in himself abundantly the attributes (of the Dao) is like an infant. (DDJ Ch. 55) Ā Ā Ā Experience the world around you nakedly and directly, without interpretation or conditioning. Act genuinely, from your gut and heart, without shame or self-consciousness. Don't be afraid to express what you need and feel no obligation to satisfy the expectations of others.Ā Ā Ā 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tommy Posted August 25, 2024 For 5 year old to understand, ... All that you are is made up of all the thoughts that you have had. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
silent thunder Posted August 25, 2024 Once, a looooong ago.Ā A star (or perhaps two) burst into Supernovae... Ā This incredibly powerful explosion resulted in the formation of the more complex and heavy elements that coalesced into our Solar System and created its Star, our Home Planet and Life as we experience it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted August 25, 2024 (edited)  On 21/08/2024 at 2:28 AM, Mark Foote said: ... Now we understand ⦠Have a nice day.   Edited August 26, 2024 by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites