Don't worry be happy?

[steve]

6 hours ago, old3bob said:

 

the ways or teachings of renunciates are often being quoted at this site but a householder/family person can not rightly be a renunciate and also fulfill their householder dharma at the same time....In many/most Hindu traditions when a householder has fulfilled that dharma then they can transition to being a renunciate,  whereas some become vowed renunciates/monks or nuns of an order at a very early age.  What problems have you seen along such lines?  

 

I've not spent much time on the path of renunciation so I can't really comment much.

Not saying it would not be effective, even for me maybe, but I'm glad I found an alternative.

I do think it is a difficult path to tread for a householder.

 

 

6 hours ago, old3bob said:

 

"...We remain human and it is the human mind that experiences and recollects the release of limitations as some special state. That in and of itself is a bit of an error."  Steve

 

There is a lot packed into your sentence above! (and the related post)  Is there an 'if' in part of it?  My interpretation along that line would say that the traced memory of "it" is not "it".  (but that pointers/maps/signposts can surely help) 

 

Not sure where or if an "if" would fit in there, do you have a suggestion?

 

[Cobie]

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Edited 1 hour ago by Cobie

[steve]

2 hours ago, Cobie said:

One cannot have a sensible discussion with someone from another Way, as long as either is locked up inside their own Way.

 

 

 

Yes, but one can have one hell of an argument!

DaoBums for the win!

 

Edited 12 hours ago by steve

[oak]

Question for @Bindi

How do you deal with powerful cathartic dreams? The kind that can shock you deeply as you find yourself for example expressing agression or sexuality without any boundaries, that is doing things that your conscious self would never aprove. I do understand that the reason why they happen is repressed energy, even so in my case it was something I couldn't deal with.

[Nungali]

2 hours ago, Cobie said:

 

 

To me all systems look to be about the integration of water and spirit (πνεῦμα‎‎, John 3:5). Just different terminology. E.g.  風水 (feng1 shui3) wind and water. E.g. DDJ 42:

萬 物 負 陰 (wan4 wu4 fu4 yin1) As for everyone - everyone turning their back on the yin

而 抱 陽 也 (er2 bao4 yang2) and embracing the yang;

中 氣 為 和 (zhong1 qi4 wei2 he2) It’s the blending of yin and yang, that creates harmony.

 

 

 

That is interesting .   Genesis ;  ⁶ And God said, “Let there be a vault between the waters to separate water from water.” ⁷ So God made the vault and separated the water under the vault from the water above it. And it was so. ⁸ God called the vault “sky.” And there was evening, and there was morning—the second day.

 

'water above the vault ' ;  'spirit ' ? 

 

Perhaps this 'air' is spirit ?  'Pneuma' , the 'higher' aspect of air , maybe relates to  breat and that which 'brings life (spirit) ' . 

 

resulting in  (in hermetics )  Air (primary spirit - the one )   ,  'spilts' into polarities  ( and obvious 'opposites' ) ; air (lower) and fire, ( now forming a triad )  gives birth to earth  ( the 10,000 things ) .

 

That is ; the 'triad/ supernal/ ideal'  combination of forces ; when it breaks into the fourth , the 10,000 things  form  4 elements , but in polarity of 'active and passive '  (carry the original signature )  and now are in the order ; fire then water, air earth . 

 

But why is the higher 'air'  considered 'water above the vault '  ?    

 

Either ; its all that rain and clouds up there (where did that come from ???? )  or   ..... (Egypt again )

 

  .... Ra travels through the sky/heavens in a boat  .

Edited 10 hours ago by Nungali

[old3bob]

2 hours ago, steve said:

 

I've not spent much time on the path of renunciation so I can't really comment much.

Not saying it would not be effective, even for me maybe, but I'm glad I found an alternative.

I do think it is a difficult path to tread for a householder.

 

Not sure where or if an "if" would fit in there, do you have a suggestion?

 

 

not many advanced teachers are married with multiple kids and a 9-5 job of  working 45-60 hrs+ a week along with a travel commute, and that is only part of the package of dealing with all the other demands of being a householder in the world!  Young kids alone are almost a 24-7 job for one of their parents, or if and when they switch on and off.  Ad taking care of parents and grandparents to that...

Edited 10 hours ago by old3bob

[Bindi]

5 hours ago, Cobie said:

 

There are loads of “models”/traditions/Ways. Imo not useful to judge other models with the ‘tools’ of your own model.

 

 

 

I propose 2 new categories of study, the science of spirituality and the science of the subtle energy body. It involves mapping the realities of spirituality and the subtle body, and it’s not on an I reckon or I’ve heard basis, but aims to be as close as possible to the scientific method. 
 

in this study there can be such a thing as established truth that can be built upon and discussed, competing hypotheses can be presented, and disputes are inevitable and valuable as they directly contribute to an increasing body of knowledge of reality. 

As an analogy, if someone claims in conversation that the earth is flat, the World Trade Center was an American government false flag operation, or Jewish space lasers caused a hurricane, can we call these positions out, or do we have to respect individual beliefs? 

 

[Bindi]

11 hours ago, stirling said:

 

The collapse of the reality of a "self", the collapse of the experience of "space", and time end the quest. What if you knew based on your experience RIGHT NOW, that this was the only place/time you could be in? It isn't about beliefs - beliefs are what we construct when we don't gnow through gnosis. Gnosis is this-moment experience of the deeper reality, not an abstraction, a constructed theory. It is permanent because it can always be seen, and is the pervasive quality of reality. There is no arriving, or destination. They are understood to be fictions.

 

 

That's the thing - there is (famously) no way to really conceptualize it. Even the best models (Nagarjuna, for example) of what it is are wrong. The moment they use the subject/object structure of language they are instantly wrong. There is no "this happens to this" story about the nature of it that can explicate it. It isn't "my" model, it is just "here", omnipresent. No model can supplant it. 

 

 

I remember yes. But, are your nadi's, channels, chakras, or dantians things you can touch or see or show someone else, or are the conceptual - another story about how things work?

Nadi’s and channels show up in dreams, think streams and rivers in various degrees of water flow for Ida/yin channel, and corridors that are dark and stifling or light and airy and open to fire for pingala/yang channel. 
 

For chakras it’s helpful to build upon Edgar cayces assertion that the glands are the physical underpinnings of the chakras. 
 

Dantians are a curious phenomenon, they’re like forgotten architecture in our subtle energy bodies that can be developed by very specific processes, I propose that evidence of dantians that are working are things like directed qi healing from the palms. This is measurable, it can be studied in a very strict manner, I’d happily take part in that experiment if anyone ever wanted to set it up. 
 

All of the above is visible to someone with “direct sight”. This is the frontier of human consciousness and awareness, multiple groups have knowledge of these systems, including Indian tantrics and yogis, Tibetan Buddhists, early neidan practitioners, there may be more. 
 

 

[Bindi]

2 hours ago, oak said:

Question for @Bindi

How do you deal with powerful cathartic dreams? The kind that can shock you deeply as you find yourself for example expressing agression or sexuality without any boundaries, that is doing things that your conscious self would never aprove. I do understand that the reason why they happen is repressed energy, even so in my case it was something I couldn't deal with.

Part of my method for dream work is to “feel the feeling” after the dream has been interpreted to the best of one’s ability, which I did by recreating the dream in my mind and allowing myself as much as possible to re-enter the feeling created by the dream image. Doing this for decades, slowly getting better at it, allows the full force of a feeling to be experienced over time, and really this is what a fully open emotional channel is. Rumi’s poem captures the work perfectly - 

 

The Guest House
Rumi
Translated by Coleman Barks

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

[old3bob]

 

"...We remain human..." By Steve,  I wasn't sure of your import there (?) but 'if' we remain human then we have not yet realized that being identified as a particular human/mind is only an apparent and passing identity.  

 

Edited 8 hours ago by old3bob