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Hello everyone, some questions and doubts for why I joined.

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I have been facing this problem for a long time: Limerence, its a term coined by Dorothy Tennov where you have obsessive thoughts about a person you don't even know. Its funny because it happened with different women, everytime the theme was the same (she was of a higher social status than I was) and I to this day have no clue what causes it. Its like my brain just shifts from one Limerence object to another (another phrase coined by the same author) and until it fades away completely (I confessed to my latest one, she told me she already knew and I'm trying to stop the fantasies) and it completely stops me from living in the moment. I know the psychology behind it and how oxytocin and endorphins are released everytime I have a fantasy. And not all of those are sexual, some are conversations I'm having to IMPRESS that girl. I have no clue how to not fall into this again, hell even the latest one is still in my head trying to hold on. Its scary how human brains work. I'm having chest pain (broken heart) as if Ive broken up but instead it was all in my head.  





Oh and also about semen retention, I have done it once and it lasted 153 days but haven't been able to do it again properly, whats the cause? I'm in and out, and the second best was 23 days and I ejaculated out of, well, I have no clue; it was a stupid trigger. It always is.

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Hello pratc, and welcome.


Your membership is approved and we're happy you found your way to us. We look forward to accompanying you on some of the way that you still have to go.


Please take the time to read the two posts pinned at the top of this Welcome page and take a look at the forum terms and rules. This covers all you need to know when getting started.


For the first week you will be restricted to ten posts per day but after that you can post as much as you like. Also, until you’ve posted fifteen times in the forums, you’ll be a “Junior Bum” with somewhat restricted access and will be allowed only two private messages per day.


Good luck in your pursuits and best wishes to you,


Marblehead and the TDB team



Hi pratc,


I would suggest that your two interests are linked.


There are a number of threads concerning semen retention so you can join one of those discussions and I am sure you will get some responses.


To the first one, I would suggest starting a thread in the "Off Topic" sub-forum.  You will get more views and responses there than you will here in the "Welcome" sub-forum. 


You are welcome to jump right in ongoing discussions, revive an older thread, start a new thread of your own, or start a discussion in the "Newcomer Corner" sub-forms to expand on your introduction or ask general questions to help you get started.


May you enjoy your time here.



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