Annnon Posted 6 hours ago How to be free from emotional pain? If someone does bad things to you, that person faces no consequences and just walks away, there's no justice, nothing else you can do and now you need to live knowing that nothing will happen to that person, how do you free yourself from the emotinal pain? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChiDragon Posted 2 hours ago When people think about justice, then, they want revenge . If one don't get even with that person, the emotional pain won't go away. However, from a Taoist / Buddhist point of view, if one can just let it go and don't think about justice, then, the pain will go away. No matter what the situation is, one always keep one's poise and emotionless. Just treat like it is none of your business. One cannot change whatever had been happened already and can't do anything about it, then, just let it go. That is what cultivation of the mind was all about. Perhaps, this is not something that a normal person can handle. Peace! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lairg Posted 2 hours ago (edited) 5 minutes ago, ChiDragon said: if one can just let it go and don't think about justice, then, the pain will go away That certainly works if the instigator has given up. If, however, the astral or mental attack continues, it may be necessary to take action. The simplest is taking the incoming energy lines and dropping them into the Earth. The next layer of defense is building a light body imitation of oneself and attaching the incoming energy lines to the imitation. Most attackers are not smart enough to understand what is happening, so the target is free. A more assertive alternative is looping the flows around and redirecting them to the source. Mostly such attackers do not see they are attacking themself - and get worn out in a couple of days Edited 2 hours ago by Lairg Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigSkyDiamond Posted 1 hour ago 20 minutes ago, ChiDragon said: When people think about justice, then, they want revenge . If one don't get even with that person, the emotional pain won't go away. However, from a Taoist / Buddhist point of view, if one can just let it go and don't think about justice, then, the pain will go away. No matter what the situation is, one always keep one's poise and emotionless. Just treat like it is none of your business. One cannot change whatever had been happened already and can't do anything about it, then, just let it go. That is what cultivation of the mind was all about. Perhaps, this is not something that a normal person can handle. Peace! regarding bold above, since Buddhism embraces both karma and reincarnation, then there are repercussions and "justice." Even though we do not see how or when the justice is administered, the system assures us that it does occur. So that is a source of peace. Our focus though is NOT on the other person, it is on our own self, our own growth, our own development, our own peace of mind, health, and well-being. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lairg Posted 29 minutes ago (edited) 1 hour ago, BigSkyDiamond said: Even though we do not see how or when the justice is administered, the system assures us that it does occur. So that is a source of peace. Long ago I had a dream that I was in a prison camp. Someone had broken the rules but I was punished not them. I felt that was most unfair. When I awoke I asked about the dream and was told that when a member of a group breaks a rule, it does not matter which in the group is punished. Thus group karma can result in the innocent bearing the pain. Edited 29 minutes ago by Lairg Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigSkyDiamond Posted 16 minutes ago (edited) 14 minutes ago, Lairg said: Long ago I had a dream that I was in a prison camp. Someone had broken the rules but I was punished not them. I felt that was most unfair. When I awoke I asked about the dream and was told that when a member of a group breaks a rule, it does not matter which in the group is punished. Thus group karma can result in the innocent bearing the pain. However it is a person's own personal karma which resulted in them being part of that group. Edited 15 minutes ago by BigSkyDiamond Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Surya Posted 15 minutes ago My personal experience is that the more I am able to connect with the divine, the less BS bothers me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
liminal_luke Posted 12 minutes ago 6 hours ago, Annnon said: How to be free from emotional pain? If someone does bad things to you, that person faces no consequences and just walks away, there's no justice, nothing else you can do and now you need to live knowing that nothing will happen to that person, how do you free yourself from the emotinal pain? Try this: ACTIVE LOVE — THE TOOLS 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
