nine tailed fox Posted December 26, 2013 i read this word everywhere  you should be non needy, detached, non attached  but i still dont understand , how do you practically achieve this state ? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marblehead Posted December 26, 2013 To be non-needy is to be content. I'll let others talk about the other stuff. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
C T Posted December 26, 2013 tips, clues, and ideas galore below.... Â (btw, there is quite a difference between detachment & non-attachment.) Â Â Â Â 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ish Posted December 26, 2013 Good start is investigating your mind 24/7. Â When you feel attachment to something - look at - Â Why am i attached to this? What is this thing that i am attached to? Is it worth being attached to? Â then, who is attached? Â It sounds so easy, which means its just overlooked and people don't do it. But you want to understand yourself and why you do what you do, so it's essential. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites