Immortal4life

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  1. Just now, ilumairen said:

     

    I wouldn't care if you did. 

     

    Logically, and observationally, this idea women are more emotional is only tenable when certain emotions (as expressed by men) are negated as emotion and a patriarchal status quo is upheld, whereby men can speak with certitude and argumentation is entirely dismissed as this emotionality they somehow don't experience. 

     

    It is anything but logical, while touting how very logical it is.

     

    Boring drivel as far as I'm concerned. 

    Well I appreciate the effort and energy you're putting in. So I'll explicate a bit on this idea you bring up.

     

    I've certainly never thought men are "more" emotional than women, or that women are "less" logical than men.

     

    It is my experience though, that women typically value emotion and intuition in their daily life and affairs. Men typically value logic over emotion in theirs. So this is mostly a strawmam🙂


  2. 1 minute ago, Earl Grey said:

    you pretty much register as a sleaze who thinks he has marital skill and pickup skills but has never seen the real thing or met the real masters in action.

     

    Too predictable, a guy who thinks he has the regality of a phoenix is nothing more than a fratboy peacocking for attention. 

     

    Talk to me when you've got something really worthwhile bragging about, "little boy". 

    Didn't mean to get you quite so riled up😂


  3. 12 minutes ago, Earl Grey said:

     

    I never indicated anything about my success with women, as I don't kiss and tell. 

     

    I don't debate women's real nature because that's not my place to discuss, it's theirs

    None of this is honorable, nor will it gain you any attraction or respect. Perhaps lip service or empty pats on the back, but nothing real. Good little guy, you're a well behaved little boy. You know it was really nice to meet you, bye now, more men should be as nice as you, bye.

     

    Psychological studies have shown all people are notoriously bad at self analysis. Talk is cheap in other words. Remember the old saying "actions speak louder than words". If we want to get at truth, a goal and fundamental principle of Taoists, we need analysis not self reporting.  A person's nature will always be revealed in their actions not their words. When a subject knows they're being observed the results of the study become skewed. Words don't show much, results are king. Similar to the difference between an experiment or study, and a survey😉😂


  4. 5 minutes ago, Earl Grey said:

     

    Otherwise, start giving a history lecture on the Dadaist influence on Fluxus in the middle of copulating with your date and see how well that fits into the situation, if it contributes to it or if it makes your date raise her eyebrows and wonder what the hell you're doing. You're doing the same thing here. 

    I bet I could pull it off and make it work

     

    And afterwards they'll be all like "that was so hot, what was that stuff you were talking about, it turned me on so much you sounded so smart"


  5. Probably not, they wouldnt relate, so they would just lose attraction and move on to the next guy. You're presuming more than I am. Some women do find logical analysis of dating dynamics interesting though. It just has to be presented in a way they can emotionally relate to.

     

     Women are beautiful, emotionally, wonderful creatures, who give back tenfold however much energy and love you give to them.

     

    But apparently success with women, accepting women's real nature, triggers something deep inside you. Something you're insecure about and pushing down so you can't fully express yourself or your sexuality.

     

     


  6. They might not relate to logically analyzing conversations, working as a team with each other, and giving fedback, because women tend to typically favor emotion and intuition when it comes to dating and mate selection. But I can tell you women show their girlfriends their conversations all the time, to get their friends intuitive feedback, see how their friends react to see if the guy will fit in well with their social circle, and to have a fun laugh mocking the creepy and dorky ones. 

     

    1 hour ago, Earl Grey said:

     

    Even if you block out names, these are still private conversations. Go forward these links to your prospects and see how they feel about you posting their conversations here.

    I'll tell you what, after I've really solidified it, had sex with them several times, and fully emotionally converted them, I will do this and I guarantee they won't care. If I do it out of the blue before that point, then yeah of course that would be weird as shit


  7. I feel it's ok since I thought I was careful to block out any potentially identifying information.

     

    Dating and relationships are a subject I enjoy and am very interested in. Since I decided to check this place out again in my social distanced boredom, have recently gotten back into online dating, and it's a topical subject in the news right now, I just thought maybe someone might be interested, perhaps I could help some people, or we could have insightful discussions.

     

    Why do you personally feel a resistance or discomfort concerning it? What issues might you be repressing in yourself?


  8. So in this new climate of social distancing it can be hard to meet prospective mates, get dates, etc.

     

    Dr. Fauci recently was asked about the issue 

    https://nypost.com/2020/04/15/fauci-endorses-tinder-hookups-with-a-caveat/

     

    So I'd like to open a discussion in where we can discuss meeting people through online dating. Share experiences, compare notes, and help each other find success in ways that are positive, win/win, and respectful for both men and women

     

     

     

     

     

     

     


  9. 1 hour ago, Dalmat said:

    So, as you say man can pick up Li's bad karma? That's possible? I mean, my karma is my karma, how and way pick up someones karma and opposite? Can you explain this a little?

     

    Apparently it will "seep" into your subtle body😂

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  10. That's actually not Chen family Taiji. But you can see the influence of it, of the winding and reeling, the spirals, the seamless changing of Yin and Yang, on what he is doing there.

     

    If I'm not mistaken Feng called his Taijiquan system Hunyuan, and it was a synthesis of Chen family Taiji with other arts, Xinyi, and Hunyuan qigong, and perhaps other arts like Baji as well. 

     

    It's obviously very good though.