Songtsan

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  1. I missed the Summer Solstice.  It happened yesterday.

     

    Happy belated Summer Solstice to all.

     

    And a happy Winter Solstice for the up-side-down folks.

     

     How could you miss it!? You were still here on Earth weren't you? :blink:


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    You sound like the kind of  person who thinks that Carlos Castaneda was making stuff up, or that the yogis who achieved the superhuman powers were hallucinating. 

     

    I've checked into the whole Carlos Castaneda thing (read all his original books and looked into his Tensegrity practices), and he probably was making a bunch of stuff up. I won't go into a lengthy 'convincing attempt' though, but if you want to know for yourself, really do some research. Wizards bend the mind. I am not saying he wasn't a wizard.

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  3. . If this were valid (as far as humans are concerned), how come (no pun intended here) females are particularly sexually attractive and sensitive during their menstruation? - As certain studies showed.

     

     

     

    Intercourse during menstruation helps speed up removal of the lining through the contractions experienced during orgasm. Also, it is always stress relieving, relieves cramps, can shorten the length of the period, all sorts of stuff...

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  4. I've never had kids, so I am more and more interested (though not attached) in having one....however, I have considered it in the past, and I believe that it is give and take....having a child can certainly impact your ability to undertake cultivation, but only in a certain mindset...24/7 meditation (which involves the most intense non-attachment) should have no problem with having children.


  5. I did some of his most extreme techniques that I learned in the workshops with him way back in 1985. Anyway, there are other ways of approaching this.

     

    Like DHEA? testosterone? dopamine agonists? just curious...


  6. Mhm part of this thread is about the idea that why does it matter so much if I do or dont?

     

    Personalllyyyy. I far more enjoy holding it in and riding that pleasure wave. Then releasing for 6 seconds of blah to reach a dead lifeless heartless me.

     

    But I think that's what she likes so much. Seeing me in those 6 seconds. So she would rather see me out of my own control in 6 seconds then to know I am in complete bliss for hours while not releasing.

     

    Some of you think I am just suppressing and believing the church or some shit in the hopes of becoming.. immortal. I'm not I just am very aware of how my body feels and I can see I live better moderately releasing.

     

    follow your own bliss. (and try faking an orgasm! ;)


  7. It's not a technique it's a personal preference. I can feel my self low and lethargic if I release too often. You may not but I do. So I prefer to do it moderately.

    The problem is my partner seems to be influenced by the pornographic idea of just ejaculating all over the bedroom lol

     

    some people are more sensitive to prolactin...

     

    ...try faking orgasm when you are inside her....it's always fun, lol

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  8. The power of so called semen retention is nothing compared to the power of the universal life force. Stop wasting your time with pathetic little techniques. I studied with Mantak Chia over thirty years ago and tried all this nonsense and found it wanting and a dead end.

     

    I don't study with anyone, although I did first start practicing this after reading one of Chia's books, and it makes me feel great every day, like a boxer...certain mindsets and practices are needed though...and one can come every once and a while, but not that often...

     

    just my experiences


  9. I think that it's not that easy.

    If the woman wants the semen, she get the semen one way or another.

    Sexual intercourse without ejaculation requires a certain degree of mutual cooperation.

     

    Not always...use the quick pull-out method, way before the tipping point...make it seem like you meant to do it for other reasons, like switching positions to something non-coital.

     

    Gain awesome control through practicing daily muscle contractions...know how to focus on the right areas to keep the energy from going out....


  10. Wear her out with orgasm after orgasm, using all available methods...keep sticking to your guns. If she still complains, ask her if that 6 seconds of emission is really that pivotal a thing to get upset about in a relationship. If she says yes, well... move on...move on...

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  11. Hopefully you're not buying your spring water, but getting it fresh out of the ground. Plastics aren't good. My spring water is apparently 4 ppm! Not that I'm obsessive about this subject.

     

    About absorption...that's true. If there were a reliable brand of fluoride free toothpaste I'd use it. Used Tom's of Maine in like 2010, and it was bad. Otherwise...with absorption from being in the mouth for like a minute a day, it's a pretty minuscule amount.

     

    Unfortunately yes, plastic. Hopefully we will have a reverse osmosis system set up here sooner or later.

     

    I dont know toothpaste brands anymore. I thought Desert Essence had a good one, but I don't know if they are even still around.


  12. There does seem something devious and underhanded about the ADA (and AMA). Mercury, fluoride....and of course cavities can heal themselves if you take care of them right....