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I have just been looking at this topic.. http://www.nityama.com/blog/interview.html Another thing I’ve noticed is that many men of power, including myself, have a tremendous amount of respect for “woman”, as far as their spiritual development and capacity - all men of power use the way of “woman” whenever possible, because any man that understands knows that the way of the woman is a thousand times more powerful than the way of the man. So as a result, he uses the way of the woman. And when he needs to use the way of the man, he uses it with precision. And the moment it’s no longer necessary, he falls back into the way of the woman. Conscious men do this willingly with great ease and finesse. Other men who cling to machismo and deny the way of the woman have no idea how much they hold back their own spiritual development via their denial. A certain poster has been trolling this boards with hidden barbs at gays and "feminine" men i.e. men who are not physically/mentally/emotionally cruel towards women.. Please allow me to remind everyone that the feminine energy is always stronger than the masculine energy. Women are infinitely stronger than males in many ways which is why women are able to have sex with many partners but males can only have sex with a few partners before he become exhausted physically. This is the reason why I learn the art of taoist love-making and the spiritual arts in general. Cos men will age too fast if they engage too much in masculine energy and focus their energies on sexual ejaculation too often. So to preserve your soul, body, essence, I would recommend every man to become as feminine and as yin as possible. No I am not gay, the only dick which I like is my own and I am fascinated sexually with huge boobs. But that doesn't mean I have to engage my masculine energies too often. The feminine energy/side of yourself is the only way through to enlightenment and to the Creator/Tao himself. It is the way of spirituality of connecting to the universe. Feminine energies are the ways of love, emotions, nurturing and healing. Ignore your egos. Do not let your egos be taunted into the dark side by the dark trolls haunting this holy board. Cos it is only when the Deva Egos inside you have triumphed over the Human Egos then can you open yourself up to enlightenment. Engage in your feminine side. Engage in your feminine energies. Become feminine and heal the planet. And one thing I assure you is that once you become feminine enough, you will find plenty of women flocking to you. Ever wonder why gays always attract so many women to them?

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This farmer had only one horse, and one day the horse ran away. The neighbors came to condole over his terrible loss. The farmer said, "What makes you think it is so terrible?" A month later, the horse came home--this time bringing with her two beautiful wild horses. The neighbors became excited at the farmer's good fortune. Such lovely strong horses! The farmer said, "What makes you think this is good fortune?" The farmer's son was thrown from one of the wild horses and broke his leg. All the neighbors were very distressed. Such bad luck! The farmer said, "What makes you think it is bad?" A war came, and every able-bodied man was conscripted and sent into battle. Only the farmer's son, because he had a broken leg, remained. The neighbors congratulated the farmer. "What makes you think this is good?" said the farmer. Morale of the story.. cut off your lust for happiness but at the same time avoid rejection of happiness..

There are always ways to make inroads in one area without making sacrifices in other areas. You have to do it with compassion and wisdom though i.e. serving the Universe and Humanity and all that..

The female energies are stronger than the masculine energies.. It is common sense.. A woman is capable of having sex with many more partners than a man in the same period of time .. unless the man becomes multi-orgasmic.. You have no idea how many females have this hidden sexual fantasy of turning a gay man into a straight man.. If anything, this will validates the females' own sexuality and attractiveness.. It is like saying,"hey look at me now.. i am so hot i managed to turn a gay man straight." Men already have the intrinsic yang energy in them.. However, you do not engage in sex every second of your life do you?.. This is why yin energy is needed to balance you out mentally, emotionally, physically.. especially when you engage in celibate spiritual practices.. I have yet to see any successful sexual close with a mad yang-driven man.. all seduction PUA games require a healthy dosage of yin energy to keep the man in control until you get into the bedroom with a chick.. then you be as yang as you can get... .. Why does the man has to be kept in control? Cos the man has to keep his wits about him in order to become emotionally close to the woman.. this is where the yin energy in a man comes into play.. if you do not become emotionally close to a woman, then how are you gonna get into her pants?.. as some have said.. balance of yin and yang..

What spiritual principles are these? I am hardly qualified to be a guru.. just the same searcher like anyone else.. However, these spiritual principles do exist, no different from the laws of physics. Manipulating these spiritual principles is no different from manipulating the law of physics.

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lol .. you don't understand what i am saying.. i am saying there are spiritual laws governing the relationships, health, finances, popularity, etc of every person on earth.. whether you want one woman or one million women, the same spiritual principles still apply.. learn how to manipulate these spiritual laws with compassion and wisdom and your life gets a whole lot easier..

When you ask, it is already being greedy.. even if it is for a minimum.. Are you really that desperate for sex and women, Non? You know, here in taiwan, there was once a man who did a sex ritual. Every woman in heat became irresistibly drawn to him and would want to have sex with him. This guy ended up having sex everyday. What happened to him in the end? He looked like a 60+ old man when he was only 40 years old. There was once a sorcerer in a village who used his sex magick on every woman he met. Every woman, whether married or not, end up sleeping with him. In the end, the gods sent some deities to remove his spiritual power and he died in a very ugly manner. There are numerous cases of people doing love magick on married or attached couples in the hopes of stealing one spouse away from the other person. I am sure some of us have heard about the infamous Thailand/SEA love magick where the woman put her menstrual fluids in a drink and enpowered such fluids. The man who drank her fluids would fall hopelessly in love with that woman forever. He would also suffer perpetual bad luck and lose all fortune. How about magick during business negotiations? Oh yes there are numerous magick in every country too which can put your business customer, supplier or partner under your sway. The other person in business negotiations can be charmed into agreeing to your terms if you apply enough spiritual leverage. Using magick in physical fights? Just go to Thailand and research sak yant. Thai Kickboxers are so violent partly because of the strength magick which they use. You said that there are some men who keeps getting women. Do you know what happen to men who keep getting women? They become haggard and look far older than their years as they grow old. Why is that? Cos they gave their essence out to far too many women instead of conserving their essence for their own self development. My point is behind every act in the world are vast spiritual forces controlling these acts. You want to achieve whatever material outcome you desire? Start getting spiritual and learn how to manipulate these spiritual forces. But in the end, you will discover all these material outcomes whether it be women, money, dominance over other men is all emptiness compared to the true enlightenment you can achieve. In the end, if you abuse your spiritual powers, you will end up with nothing, not even your life.

Every act in this world is controlled by higher beings. You can call them angels, gods, deities.. whatever.. But every act in this world.. including the act of breathing, whether we hook up with certain women or not, where and what we do for a job, what time we sleep, where we live, how much money we earn, etc etc.. is controlled by higher beings.. Once you progress spiritually far enough on a path.. you can interact with these higher beings or energies in order to manipulate your destiny.. Once you have the necessary spiritual power, you can choose whom you want to sleep with and compel her to sleep with you. I have been under such sex magick attacks myself for the last 18 months. But seriously, Non, is that truly the purpose of us being here on this planet? To set records of how many women you sleep with or how much money you earn? Wilt Chamberlain once claimed he slept with 16,000 women but where is he now? There were numerous kings and emperors in the past who controlled vast empires but where are they now? In the end, everything is dust.. everything is emptiness.. everything is impermanent.. Do you know how much money and resources the Chinese emperors in the past spent on trying to recruit taoist masters in order to learn their spiritual secrets? The secrets of longevity, sexuality and power? Do you know that almost every Taoist master rejected all the money and power in the world from these Chinese emperors? Cos to these taoist masters, when you can conjure the powers of the universe at your fingertips, what is the use of women, money and political power? Do you know how much spiritual power is welded by the Egyptian Pharaohs? OPEN YOUR EYES.

Dear Non, The arts of energetic spiritual practices can be abused to attract women. By staying yin enough, a male can use the yin energy to get closer emotionally to a female and then abusing his yang energy to sexually close her into a fuck. You do need money to back up your conquests too. Who's gonna pay for the candelight dinners, movies and gifts? But then what's the point of having such conquests? Your soul doesn't evolve from such animalistic pursuits. You don't get enlightened. Rex is right. I should begin blocking you.

Hello Non, Take a cue from your own thread. http://www.thetaobums.com/index.php?/topic/16287-victim-mentality/page__p__222690__fromsearch__1entry222690 Does anyone know of a good source or article on getting rid of the 'victim' mentality. One that doesn't patronize, and one that doesn't offend or insult. One that doesn't use hollywood memes and concepts, ie brainwashing. I'm looking for the REAL cure to the victim mentality. Not fear based conditioning. So... it's kind of paradoxical. To me at least. Let's say you really Are a victim at least, this body-mind state is going through suffering. Trying to state things objectively. TO overcome this suffering, one needs to accept the suffering. Once you accept the suffering, Aren't you then claiming yourself to be Victim? How is it then that one can overcome suffering then if one does not accept their own suffering, and thus deny it? I understand when the whole "being STUCK" aspect of the victim mentality. It's natural, as FEELINGS that stick with you, even when Mind TRIES to overcome them. TRIES, because then the feelings become linked to other past suffering experiences, and it builds up into a mass, that feels like you are overwhelmed, and then, your neurochemical, biological faculties become Stressed to a point that there's too much cortisol in the brain. Then you try in an attempt to overcome it by associating pleasant feelings of dopamine and seratonin and other neurochemical soups to 'accept' your pain and suffering soo that you overcome it, only to realize that it's part of your energetic body, because you have not let go, in fact you dont know how. It's a Biological thing as much as it is Mental. It is Energetic as much as it is physical. It is 'spiritual/idealogical' and material. Not just mental. Not just physical. Not just energetic. Not just any one of those alone, at all. Then why do so many approaches try to solve this issue by making one fear oneself, by patronizing, with insults, and languages. It is something that cannot be understoood. Somehow it seems that Biologically the human being is somehow SET UP for the victim mentality in it's "Natural" state. Such that it takes only someone who is above the physical material to really overcome this. So why then is htere so much misunderstanding? NOBODY REALLY WANTS TO BE SUFFERING. Don't EVER think anyone ACTUALLY does. Their BODIES might, their SUBCCONSCIOUS might, their BRAINS might be wired in such a way. But REALLY ACTUALLY put them through torturous pain and then LOOK INTO HIS EYES AND FEEL THAT THIS PERSON DOES NOT WANT TO BE SUFFERING. Because IT HURTS and it makes YOU suffer to see this person the same way also. Again it seems paradoxical. Same with changing beliefs. Change your beliefs right? HOW!? By changing my belief that I don't need to know how? How? By not needing to know how? HOW!? What if I go back to the same thing. How? How? Is there is magic button you push in your mental facilities that makes your subconscious beleive something or not? For sure I can see there are no pink elephants in this room right now. hahahahahahahha. ahahha hahhahahhh thank you for participating in my experiment.

You should check out this article. http://www.nityama.com/blog/interview.html Another thing I’ve noticed is that many men of power, including myself, have a tremendous amount of respect for “woman”, as far as their spiritual development and capacity - all men of power use the way of “woman” whenever possible, because any man that understands knows that the way of the woman is a thousand times more powerful than the way of the man. So as a result, he uses the way of the woman. And when he needs to use the way of the man, he uses it with precision. And the moment it’s no longer necessary, he falls back into the way of the woman. Conscious men do this willingly with great ease and finesse. Other men who cling to machismo and deny the way of the woman have no idea how much they hold back their own spiritual development via their denial. You have false pride in you. There is no real status no pride in being the most popular man on the block or having the most women in your life. I think, Non, that you are out of the "norm" and you should seek help. I have never seen someone whose consciousness has fallen so far down to the level of animals that it is frightening. This is why the real spiritual masters do not want to come out to the world to teach. Because too many lay-men has so many spiritual afflictions and mental problems like NON here that the real spiritual masters' consciousness will be adversely affected. I have never thought about being celibate and staying away from women before but now I realize that in order to go full speed on my path.. I have to stay celibate and stay away from the mundane world.

LOL! Yeah, right! That is like the fraudulent statement of the century.

I have had my share of PUA hunts too and they are a waste of time and energy. Sex is suppose to be a meditative experience and it must be done with someone of a deva consciousness. If you have sex with someone who has an animal consciousness, you will be in effect absorbing the negative emotional, mental and spiritual traits of that someone into your system, thereby pulling your consciousness down. So one must engage in sex with people of deva consciousness and you must have sex that is meditative, that is how we evolve. Otherwise, a seeker on the path might as well be alone than to be with people of animal consciousness. P.S. As I said, we live in a matrix world where the media plays a very dangerous role. If we do not destroy our attachments to the wrong things in life, we will end up being trapped in samsara.

What's funny is that people get all these hang-ups about being alone. Does it mean you are less worthy as a man or a woman if you end up being alone? The highest spiritual masters attain enlightenment by not having a spouse or kids to drag them down. I don't mean that enlightenment is impossible with a spouse and kids but enlightenment is so much harder with a spouse and kids. You spend so much time and energy with a spouse and kids that you scarcely have time and energies with anything else. So I can safely assure everyone in here that NON will have a near zero probability chance of attaining enlightenment in this lifetime unless he destroys this animalistic attachment/clinging to the notion of having a spouse and kids.

you know, the lord buddha and many spiritual masters once stated that there are devas, asuras and animals living in this world too.. some of us possess deva consciousness some of us possess asura consciousness some of us possess animal consciousness the women and men whom both you and non described belong to those humans with animal consciousness.. the animal or human ego is much stronger than the deva or godly ego.. thus both men and women display the traits of animals. Change your consciousness and you will attract those of the same consciousness as you.. There are many women in the world who possess deva consciousness and many of them live in the west too.. And there is huge difference in lifestyles between people of deva consciousness and people of animal consciousness ***to mods, the term "animals" is not an insult.. it is a reference to the animal realm of the 6 buddhist paths***

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both men and women are left out ever notice how women age faster than men? ever wonder why?

I am not sure what is your definition of "yin" men but you know bill gates is a nerd and hardly a jock and he is like the richest man in history. Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg .. a total nerd.. and if you watched the facebook movie, he is as yin as you can get and yet he is like the youngest billionaire in history.. Hardly any millionaires or billionaires I know make their fortune being too yang .. that will fly in the face of business negotiations and in order to make money, you have to be yin.. as the Chinese said, a bamboo flexes in the strong wind but it will never break.. yin men occupy the lowest rung in our society? more like they occupy the top rungs in society instead and the yang men occupy the lowest rungs in our society,, who are the yang men? well policemen are pretty yang.. so are soldiers.. and what happens to these "yang" men.. they end up as slaves and servants to the "yin" men who become masters of the modern world's society.. even those nba stars (who are quite yang) have to take their marching orders from the team owners who are mostly millionaires and billionaires.. and do they get to be millionaires and billionaires by being "yang"? i hardly think so.. Non, stop being an animal and open your eyes to how the game is truly being played.. IN SUMMARY, the yang men, the soldiers, policemen, labourers end up as slaves of the yin men, the corporates, the politicans..

Non is behaving ** ****** **** ** ******. Focusing on procreation and children. He is one of those ****** ** ****** brought up by the grandmother whom I mentioned in my other thread. You know, the grandmother who lectured her grandchild on the animalistic cycles of getting a job, marriage and having kids and that there is no need to pray so hard and seek enlightenment. As a certain high being once said to a certain master, "it is unnatural to be trapped in the cycle of rebirth and reincarnation." What Non is doing is to be trapped in the cycle of rebirth and reincarnation.

I have been perusing the mongoose's work for the past hour and it all hits me. Sure we all have our yang energies, even the women have them but right now at this moment in time, both men and women have too much yang energy in them and it is of upmost importance to get into the feminine side, the yin energy in order to stay in balance. Otherwise you will get animals and losers like Non appearing in this forum whinging about sex and the lack thereof.

Non's consciousness is in the animalistic state of existence right now. You are just wasting your time with him.

As osho said, once you learn how to give others happiness instead of depending on others for your own happiness, you will become the master and other people will become your slaves. Not that it is good to make others your slaves. I am merely pointing out that one should always depend on himself/herself for his/her own happiness and not seek to find happiness from others.

you ever have this situation where you like the girl but she doesn't like you .. or where you don't like the girl but she is into you?... go figure the energy dynamics out..