suninmyeyes

OH!, please, no. I don't want to have to go through all that again. I doubt my old body could take it and there's no doubt my mind couldn't take it again.

 

But thanks. That was a very kind thought.

Too late

Anyway I wish everyone on this thread (including Mike -- peace ) falls MADLY in love with either their existing partner or meets someone warm loving person with whom to share on deepest level . Spring is coming soon anyway ...

Guys don't like what he said, either...not because it's completely untrue...but because what he said tends to be true in our experience with dating many women and having unfulfilling brief relationships with them. I guess it's a really disappointing experience overall, comparable to how women complain about how "all guys" are shallow, conceited, boring, lazy, liars, and whatever else there is to complain about.

 

At least personally, what he said doesn't apply so much with other types of relationships with women. For instance, once you have a girlfriend things are different than all of the very beginning stuff, like picking up, dating, etc. Or other examples...when you have a friend who is a girl, when they are your family, when you work with them, etc. In those other relationships, we see different sides of the individual women. They are quite different from the way we are...for instance, more socially oriented rather than pragmatically oriented...able to put up with a lot more nonsense and do what must be done, whereas guys will only take so much of something and try to change things. There are lots of differences...but yeah, in the magical realm of not really knowing people and yet trying to have deep relationships or sex with them, it can be frustrating. What he said is basically true, in regards to dating.

Of course there are differences and I understand that people had their heart broken . It is normal to feel some rage , dissapointment or whatever . We are no angels .

But the way Mike talks of women as some inferior or /and incapable "creatures" is just really sad . Not only towards women , but it is a sad represantation of such a contorted psychological space and if this represents majority -- than well I can only pray for better world .

All males I know privatley are MILES apart from this type of thinking , although they may have had tragic split ups and hard time in relationship or seducing women and bitch about their partners sometimes -- still they are so far removed from any of this kind of grey thinking .

OK I am 40 years old at the moment and you know maybe I live on another planet too .

I don't even know why ppl here are arguing with "Sloppy Zhang" Almost everything he says is true, and it works almost all the time. Why ? Because girls are by definition insecure creatures, they are in constant need of affirmation. If you put them down they feel the need to "compensate" by going after you, to prove themselves that they are worthy of you. And if you make them wait for this opportunity (by blowing them off, being busy with other things, etc), then all the better. Cause then they'll be even more desperate and insecure. But if you are too nice to girls, and give in to every demand, they see you as boring and unchallenging, and soon they will simply ignore you.

 

There are exceptions, of course. In my experience, very very hot girls (perfect 10's) are somewhat immune to douchebaggery. Why? Because douchebags are always approaching them, so they are used to it and build up a wall. And these girls and not insecure, if anything, most are pretty confident themselves, usually more confident than the guys who are slavishly approaching them. If you treat them poorly or blow them off, they'll just move on to the next guy. There's no shortage of guys lusting after them and they know it, so they won't waste their time with douchbag # 14 that approached them this week. If you want a 10, which is my goal, then you have to have the "complete package" (tall, good looking, smart, MONEY, and good personality). Being a douchebag is not part of that, not if you want a 10.

 

Books aren't going to work. Most girls are too stupid to read anything other than their facebook pages and gossip. In fact, anything that requires a lot of intelligence is not going to work on a girl. They are creatures of FEELING. You have to understand and exploit their emotions. Somebody who is able to do this will get much further than somebody who is intelligent but cannot arouse any emotion whatsoever. Girls don't think: "this guy has these positive qualities, and thus I will be attracted to him." No no no. They FEEL. And if they feel good around you (or rather, you MAKE them feel good around you), then she is yours.

 

EDIT: some of the above works in reverse too. Its called flaking. Girls do it all the time to me. And when they flake, instead of dropping them, I am MORE attracted. Cause you like more what you can't have. Right now its friday night and I'm supposed to go out with this chick I'm chasing. But she blew me off the last second so instead I am eating by myself and looking at porn. Should I forget about her and delete her number ? Yes. But will I? No. I'll come running back to her asking for another date !

Where is my DISLIKE button ??

Very good. Yes there are many ways to send negativity into emptiness.

 

I like to transform this energy and use it. Why throw it away when you can recycle it and "gain" ?

It is about not taking life personally .

not to disrupt the thread but if anyone wants to play and practise , here are some remote viewing targets

http://www.remoteviewed.com/target/

Where did you get this idea from ? Never heard it before .. Sounds unusually uncomfortable . Sleeping with cement .

ask that girl out anyway nine tailed fox

I have several of these experiences. First, you are being attacked because you yourself have certain psychological, spiritual, and mental vulnerabilities. This could be certain issues you are refusing to deal with and etc. Your weakness manifested in your dreams or meditations.

Yes , dreams are really good to learn from in that way .

There needs to be something in personality that resonates . So that is why acting from personal point with personal strenght is going to be bothersome and tiering and seemengly a big deal .

San Bushman saying is :

Anger attracts

Love transformes

Ah OK I think I get it , well than in that case that person is pretty much sorted really . Also not to mix numbness (which is actually supresion of desires) with desireless.

What do you mean exactly IS ?

Just managed to delete my post by mistake .

I think that thread had many views due to its name . But than after -- b.o.r.i.n.g. .. haha or : thinking there is nothing to say ?

If someone really wants not to get bothered as much with negativity or whatever than one has to have understanding of this at least to some degree . Otherwise there will be always so much bother of some sort .

This is life , it is not ectasy every day 24 hours per day -- anyone noticed that ?

So what ?

....and the beat goes on .

As deci mentioned it requires discipline and alertness . It also depends what someone desires .

Glad to hear you are well .

Would be great to see video of you training !

Anyone know the cause of a block in the left side of the neck?

Again it could be many things , posture , repetative strain , old injury ... If it is getting to uncomfortable maybe find a GOOD healer , tuina practicioner or medical chi kung who knows what they are doing .

4absolute , it could be many things ..Do you learn from someone ? It is good too have at least someone with maturity and expirience you can talk in person about this things .

Whatever practise is done by whomever I cannot stress enough firstly making ground fertile with Emotional Maturity .

I just offered my opinion for SonOfGods as he was quite detailed in description and seemed shaken . This alone could be a sign of kidneys not being so strong as well as sensation of cold . As well as being able in past to bring physical damage to myself with full lotus .

Secondly if there is some intense events spiritually , this does not come from somewhere else , but from us . It is most probably not alien enemy from different dimensions entering the third eye .

Yes different expiriences are possible and this is not the only reality , but making sure we are ready is personal responsabilty . Otherwise do not go there , in same way one may not walk in jungle FULL with tigers and wild cats at midnight .... or(edit to add:)as my teacher told -- just be ready for ANYTHING .

It is a life teaching us that there is something to be dealt with : change approach , point of view or pace , responsabilty or whatever . This needs to be embodied in all spheres of being -- cooperation , otherwise there will be imbalance .

As mentioned in previous post it is good to take a look at connection between breath , mind -- thoughts and energy and take easy , slowly .

There used to live this man in my city and he would always walk his duck and everyone knew him .

So maybe duck could be an option too ..

Firstly , how is your kidneys ?

Doing fulllotus even slightly wrong for longer period of time may affect internal organs .

Energy , breath and mind are interconnected -- so be gentle and nourishing to yourself ,

take it easy .

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I was just quoting you and you dissapeard !

 

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Energy, regardless of its polarity, doesn't go anywhere or do anything because immortalists steal its potential in its essential state simply due to the fact that that is where immortalists are coming from already. It is up to the person having no personal history in terms of not having sticking points for energy to adhere is what determines one's relationship with karma.

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Just rereading this thread .Very cool , this is skill . So in this case battle is not being fought with own strenght , which no doubt is going to be tiering at some point ..but by noticing and not acting up ones own personality ( notice difference between individual and personal ) .

is this a spoof? I wonder what Lady GaGa pays for a weekend ... I could do a lot more for her for a lot less, is what I'm thinking:

 

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hope the link works ...

Marina Abramovich is performance artist and with that the one who has been very innovative one in art world , so this is how this stuff is done and seen through her colour of glasses . A type of glasses someone like Lady Gaga for whatever reason may be able or is willing to see better through-- than mine or yours .

She seems to have some depth , but have not explored her idea of the her institute to give any other answer .

http://www.marinaabramovicinstitute.org/mai/mai/3

In fact, dealing with attacks is equal to dealing with showers of flowers. These must be immediately seen through for what they are without entertaining personalistic bias or inclination.

Just highlighting this .

T.S , I think everybody has their own path , and everyone is at certain point of life and important part of everything as such . It is just that we were discussing Hongzhi and this particular way and I was curious what would people say/add on topic , if anything ... (however anyone is welcome to add whatever extra too )

be aligned with Elegance and keeping good time in whatever is being done .

increase upper body strength and be able to handwalk .

real good

Just to add if you look at the kids they are always bouncing , twitching and making "unreasnoble "movements . This is becouse this is their way to automatically release any strain or stress that comes they way .

We are being thought to be still and disconnect , ironed with greyness in order to fit in as we grow into adults .

It would do much good if many of us do shake their legs and/or their booty more often .

However , would be nice to see PTFL here again , he always has something interesting to say ..