ShenGoku

7 hours ago, Nintendao said:

  
If you’ve got an extra $20 you could try asking voidisyinyang 

Is he high level? Is he good at communicating/explaining. Well I mean $20 ain't nothing lol. Do I really have to pay him for an answer. I mean i dont mind idc just asking if you're serious. I will not put my penis inside a vagina until I get my answer, not even willow smith!! No weenie for the vageenie! 

I have my own reasons why I dont want to be energetically tied in with another, yet I'm also aware of my natural instinct for sex with a woman as a man. I'm aware that sexual activity burns and depletes jing, but my own reasoning was that in moderation maybe it could work, but that's also dependent on the fact of what's transpiring energetically. Satisfying myself sexually, without tying my energy in or giving my own energy/jing away would be ideal for me, though, if I'm factoring in the sex itself, even if I somehow managed to prevent my energy from tying it or giving my essence away to someone else, I'd still be leaking that energy by the very act of sex itself. It would seem as though the only true path of keeping ones energy completely, without burning it up or getting tied in with another, is the path of celibacy. Which is fine for me. I'll wait for a high level practitioner to miraculously come across this thread and give me their invaluable insight though. 

1 hour ago, Nungali said:

 

 

Simple then  - just dont have sex at all .  

No weenie for the vageenie 🍆🚫

2 hours ago, Cleansox said:

There seems to be opinions about that. So it would depend on who you ask. If you ask someone trained in a sect that have methods they believe will allow a woman to do that, the answer is "yes". 

Others would say no. 

In the end, find someone who will answer you in a way that confirms your bias. 

 

During my years practicing stuff, I have heard both claims. 

And a third, that you will feed demons and spiritual parasites. 

Hopefully someone on a high level, and I mean a really high level, with a fully open third eye and possibly even immortal, who's actually on a high enough level to confirm the exact reality of what is transpiring can give me the real answer some day. Until then. I'm remaining a virgin. Thanks 😊. No weenie for the vageenie. 🍆🚫

P.S. I have no interest in finding someone that confirms my bias, as bias and actuality dont go hand in hand and coincides with falsehood rather than reality. I'm very selfish with my penis and my sexual energy, until I have a true answer from a high level practitioner, or a method/technique that can possibly divert what I suspect, in which I can have sex without giving my own energy away and possibly even recirculating it to me, then I'm going to remain celibate. No weenie for vageenie. Thanks for the answer though 🍆🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫

On 11/7/2020 at 3:46 PM, Desmonddf said:

 

Everyone has their own jing, and both men and women lose theirs during sex. What happens is that the Jing is released into the uterus, both the one from man and woman, and then may be used to form a child (if the woman is on the right days of the cycle).

 

Women aren't sexual vampires of Jing (that's one thing confuncians have indeed perverted into daoism, and indeed is a patriarchal paranoia), but none of the partners will absorb it by themselves - it will be used to nurture and ignite the life of a future child, if there is one to come.

 

If not, it will deplete and go away naturaly - the same with sperm and vaginal fluids.

 

Now, techniques to make use of this Jing are plentifull - from the classical "take that creampie and make a snowball" (that is, eat the sperm and vaginal juices after the use) to the "do a very conscious and ritualistic sex in which both share and elevate one another's energy".

 

You can go with any of those you want, but it is mainly useless for the purpose of satisfying mundane wishes and desires - Jing isn't special because it is Jing (pos-heaven Jing is composed of the same level of purity as pre-heaven Jing) but because of where it is located - the deepest recesses of your Kidneys, where the Kidney Yin and Kidney Qi take root and the Yuan Qi is kept as a treasure. 

 

That place is closed up once you're born and it cannot (or can it?) be opened after you're out of the womb (some would say even before).

 

So, no "getting younger by eating sperm" or "having sex with multiple men to get younger" - common fears of people who try to demonize daoism - or "having sex with young virgin girls to get younger" - common perversion amongst high class daoists of the past, which would try to "absorb the jing" of girls as young as 8 years old.

 

All of those were perversions brought forth by desire and greed for eternal life.

So you say theres no sexual vampirism, So if I'm having protected sex, and i orgasm, does she absorb the jing energetically? Does the jing just dissipate? What exactly happens. This is what I want clarity on.  I have my own reasons for why I don't want my energy tied in with another as well, I could care less what anyone else is assuming lol. I just want someone to give me a direct answer, save the advice for someone else. Is my jing being absorbed energetically as I'm having sex with her. Yes or no lol. 😂😭🤝👀💀

I have a question. When you cultivate and transmute jing into the lower Dantian, when you have sex, do women absorb the jing when you have sex and orgasm? And Is remaining celibate the only sure fire way to make sure you dont leak or drain your jing? I'd love a real answer from someone with real experienced knowledge 

I have some spiritual questions. That need some spiritual answers *tips hat*