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  1. A couple days ago I was having trouble studying for an exam, because the 'need' to ejaculate became way too strong. I'm an advocate of semen retention, so of course I didn't want to. However the sexual energy and urge became so great that it began to interfere with my academics. I don't want to go through that again, especially want I want that sexual energy for creativity and other uses. At first I thought the best solution would be to buy an Aneros. However I don't know if that will solve my issues; unless the stimulation of all the other organs instead me would focus or transmute the energy it won't do any good. Unfortunately, I remembered that I'm not living alone so....the last thing I want is to disturb the others. Aside from that, the Japanese practice of Male Squirting (男の潮吹き) is probably only going to make it harder to control the energy. If anything, there might even be more energy. Instead I want to know how to transmute so much sexual energy throughout my body as a means to control it, rather than control it by having to force it out. Any techniques or practices? Thanks!
  2. Having a loving partner is pretty much the fundamental sexual empowerment, and is, unfortunately, something so many people neglect in their lives.
  3. So here's a bit of an anecdote and question put together: I haven't ejaculated in about two weeks (embarrassingly this is a record). Prior to learning about multiple orgasms I would ejaculate one or two times (I don't want to admit that it was actually probably more, but....) a day without knowing what I was doing to my body. Luckily I was a teenager back then so it might not have been AS harmful as if I would do it now or if I was in my 30's+ but it still wasn't a good thing. After learning about how to have different orgasms by not ejaculating I kept trying but I always failed and kept on jizzing and jizzing. Each time I failed, I took out my frustrations on another ejaculation. I then stumbled across two phenomenal tantric sex educators (Devi Ward and Jaques Drouin) and in a podcast of Devi's I found out that there is no way you can be multi-orgasmic if your body is addicted to ejaculation. After years of aiming to cum my body only wanted to shoot my semen out and not cultivate and embrace the orgasmic energy it could pleasure itself with. Since I was out of sexual energy and needed to have my body forget that I 'need' to ejaculate I've set on a big semen retention journey to be able to train my body to accept orgasms not ejaculations. I only fear that when I get back to training myself for multiple orgasms I would ejaculate and fail what I worked so long to achieve. For the multi-orgasmic men on this forum, did you also retain your semen for a while to have multiple orgasms? If so, how long did it take you? How did you train yourself? Thanks!
  4. I haven't ejaculated in almost two weeks and I feel tingling sensations in my feet and a more rolling like sensation in my balls. This is actually crazy that you noticed this too, but for me it's not 'shooting'. At least not yet.
  5. you don't tolerate it, you help fix it. Tolerating intolerance is watching someone kill themselves in front of you without you telling them that they don't need to do it. There's no such thing as someone naturally born to only hurt and hurt; they lived their lives knowing and seeing nothing else and became a product of that. You're only hurting yourself if: A ) you're allowing that member to flow negativity into you B ) you don't fix the source rather than fight the outcome You can't make that person change yourself, but you can help them out by showing what love is and what love means. If you were to just see all this bad stuff happen in front of you and you don't do anything to help stop it, then who's the bad guy? Negativity is healed with the positive, hate is healed with love. Love those who hate, and they'll start loving too. Stop torturing yourself by being a witness. Help end the issue.
  6. 8 types of orgasm for men?

    I was looking up some video on tantra and stumbled across this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_sUJLwsFi8 I only knew of ejaculatory, non-ejaculatory (dry), and prostate/whole body orgasms. This was pretty cool. I'm in almost a week of semen retention and have heard that prior to awakening any kind of orgasm you must, MUST retain your semen for at least two weeks or so. So I have something to look forward to in the next week. I was wondering if any of you experienced these said orgasms (or any woman who experienced the orgasms in the female version of the video, found on the same channel). What brought you to experience them? I definitely think it's something worth checking out!
  7. yeah I really agree with you on this one. I just got this reply after my previous post; so I'm unable to multiquote it. I think with all the things I've been told and conditioned to do brought me (and many others) to this point. I'm on a path to free myself from what I once thought sexuality was; but it won't be easy with the many years I've been "doing it wrong". Could circumcision play a role in this?
  8. I'm gonna have to look into that. Semen retention is harder than it sounded, given that I still masturbate. The "goal" mindset is really weak during sex and can ruin the experience, and maybe the reason I keep failing by ejaculating is the constant goals of trying to have non-ejaculatory orgasms? I'll definitely give a look into your recommendations. Isn't sexual pleasure one of the things that make use human? I agree that porn has really derailed our sexuality and dehumanized sex (it may be a stretch to call it that, but it still has it's impact). But are you saying everything we do has a price to pay? Isn't that what pleasure is; bliss? We eat food and it brings pleasure, what's the price to pay for that?
  9. Interesting, but if that was case then ehy are some orgasms felt throughout the body, others in rapid succession, some making you gain energy, others having you lose it. Surely there must be a reason why, they can't just be triggered out of no where. Surely there has to be something that triggers these; and if it's not sexual energy than I don't know what it is. Sure there are some things people don't talk about in public, this is why we have the Internet and forums like this. Secondly, I fail to see why being a female has anything to do with this topic
  10. Great, thanks a bunch! Never thought of it as it should be felt towards the heart, I'll have to look into this. Masturbating is a wonderful thing for you and your body. Porn is debatable. I don't watch porn often.
  11. Hello everyone! Currently, I'm attempting to practice semen retention and create energy from non-ejaculatory orgasms. Unfortunately the moment I lost concentration (my phone vibrated) I couldn't cherish the pleasure and accidentally ejaculated. I was wondering what the best way was to move this sexual energy throughout my entire body; not just during masturbation/sex but throughout the entire day. I'm sure if I could channel this energy I could be much more productive and effective on a daily basis. Thanks!
  12. What people may fail to understand is that relaxation doesn't come in a day. For a generally tense person (the average American in my case) it can take almost a month to be able to ease all that unnecessary tension. In my case, my frustrations of not being able to fully relax caused more stress and tension. I can't help but to say tension causes heat and relaxation causes coolness for me. My body never responded to heat well, so you can guess it's going to be a long summer, and I think it's that reason that I know I'm feeling tension. When I'm relaxed I feel an almost euphoric feeling. Anything is possible, and even the most challenging things seem doable. For me, feelings like these are few and far in between; but I know if I want to live a healthy life I need to live a relaxed life.
  13. Hello

    Hello all, You guys can call me Kun. I'm here to learn mainly of semen retention and fulfilling an orgasmic state so many people are deprived of. I've unfortunately been conditioned here in America to be goal-oriented in my sexual practices and have always equated ejaculation to orgasm....that probably drained so much of me. I'm on the road of ejaculatory control and multi-orgasmic response; but after years of conditioning the American way, the road isn't going to be easy. Being circumcised as an infant certainly doesn't help either. With that said, hopefully I can come here for some guidance and help anyone else I can. Cheers! Kun