JsBach Posted March 31, 2018 Hi all I am very happy to be here but I am full of questions and doubts. I was hoping someone can help me on this journey. 1) Where should I start? 2) How do I cultivate Jing, chi and shen? 3) Do I have to be celibate? 4) If I am sexually active, can I still conserve my Jing? How? 5) Where do I find a Master to learn from? Does it has to be in person or can it be online? 6) I live in New Zealand, anyone here as well? As you can see I am very lost, any help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marblehead Posted March 31, 2018 Hello, JsBach and welcome. Your membership is approved and we're happy you found your way to us. We look forward to accompanying you on some of the way that you still have to go. Please take the time to read the post pinned at the top of this Welcome page and take a look at the forum Terms and Rules. This covers all you need to know when getting started. For the first week you will be restricted to ten posts per day but after that you can post as much as you like. Also, until you’ve posted fifteen times in the forums, you’ll be a “Junior Bum” with somewhat restricted access and will be allowed only two private messages per day. Good luck in your pursuits and best wishes to you, Marblehead and the TDB team Hi Js, There are many here who could speak to your questions. Best wishes at finding your answers. You are welcome to jump right in ongoing discussions, revive an older thread, start a new thread of your own, or start a discussion in the "Newcomer Corner" sub-forms to expand on your introduction or ask general questions to help you get started. May you enjoy your time here. Marblehead Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moment Posted March 31, 2018 9 hours ago, JsBach said: Hi all I am very happy to be here but I am full of questions and doubts. I was hoping someone can help me on this journey. 1) Where should I start? 2) How do I cultivate Jing, chi and shen? 3) Do I have to be celibate? 4) If I am sexually active, can I still conserve my Jing? How? 5) Where do I find a Master to learn from? Does it has to be in person or can it be online? 6) I live in New Zealand, anyone here as well? As you can see I am very lost, any help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you Welcome to DB. You ask a lot of questions that will get you many different and controversial answers. Research, for yourself, all of those questions on the site here and the answers will become more balanced for you. Good hunting. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RiverSnake Posted March 31, 2018 (edited) 10 hours ago, JsBach said: Hi all I am very happy to be here but I am full of questions and doubts. I was hoping someone can help me on this journey. 1) Where should I start? 2) How do I cultivate Jing, chi and shen? 3) Do I have to be celibate? 4) If I am sexually active, can I still conserve my Jing? How? 5) Where do I find a Master to learn from? Does it has to be in person or can it be online? 6) I live in New Zealand, anyone here as well? As you can see I am very lost, any help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you 1. Depends on your nature as an individual. People have different elemental compositions (Water, Fire, Earth...etc) and as a result they will gravitate towards certain techniques which reflect there innate qualities. See which methods you gravitate towards and then reflect on that connection. By doing this you can gradually form some semblance of what natural strengths you possess. 2. Eat healthy food filled with chi (Organic), get adequate sleep and don't waste your energy (porn, parasitic relationships, emotional drama...etc). 3. No. Sacred sex is lovely. 4. Sacred Sex. 5. I started learning from a dvd for the first few years and received enormous benefit. It's what got me started on the path. Did i do everything correct? No, but i got my first taste of chi and the benefits of cultivation which propelled me onward. Trust your intuition. 6. No clue. Do research. Research systems (be aware of potential con artists) thoroughly and if you find someone whom you like and has a good reputation but can't yet meet in person then get a DVD or perhaps find some other way to find out the basic methods and practice on your own (research thoroughly, this forum can help you do so). -Hope this is helpful and best of luck navigating the cultivation world. Edited March 31, 2018 by StormHealer 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
