DalTheJigsaw123 Posted September 24, 2012 It wasn't but a few days ago, her and I talked about her relationship. Now, I find out she is gone. Car accident took her life. She was an amazing person! Met her in my Psychology class, was in her group and had deep conversations that I will remember for ever. I'm just speechless, I am beyond words. A person such as her gone...Wow....WOW....WOWWW.... May you Rest in Peace Crystal! Keep smiling bright!!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
C T Posted September 24, 2012 Sorry to hear about the unfortunate loss of your friend. Â This may be helpful for you and your friend - - Â http://clearemptymind.com/2011/02/09/buddhist-prayers-and-practices-for-deceased/ Â Â Much blessings. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marblehead Posted September 24, 2012 I offer my strength and energy to all who must deal with the loss. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Moonbar Posted September 24, 2012 Death is nothing at all I have only slipped away into the next room I am I and you are you Whatever we were to each other That we are still Call me by my old familiar name Speak to me in the easy way you always used Put no difference into your tone Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow Laugh as we always laughed At the little jokes we always enjoyed together Play, smile, think of me, pray for me Let my name be ever the household word that it always was Let it be spoken without effort Without the ghost of a shadow in it Life means all that it ever meant It is the same as it ever was There is absolute unbroken continuity What is death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind Because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you for an interval Somewhere very near Just around the corner All is well. Nothing is past; nothing is lost One brief moment and all will be as it was before How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again! Â Â Sorry to hear of your loss my friend Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DalTheJigsaw123 Posted September 24, 2012 Thank you all! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aetherous Posted September 24, 2012 Sorry to hear Leon. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Everything Posted September 29, 2012 (edited) I have for a long time tried to follow my cat, to see where it goes, but my cat allways changes from position. I failed horribly and this brought me great sorrow, which led to self compression, to seek the answers within and not without. I allways wondered if the cat changes from position, or if the position changes from cat. Â After years of contemplation, and years of self compression in my failure to be where the cat was being, I came to the conclusion that I'm pretty sure that the position changes from cat. So now I do not change my position, to follow my cat. I simply be the position that has changed its relationship towards the position that is being the cat, in a way that the relationship of both our positions have become insignificant to my ability to be with the cat. For I am always in this position and have never been out of it, jus as she has allways been in the same one position that we are all in. Right here and now. There is no other time, no other place to be. Â The sorrow we feel, in the face of someone who expands into more of themselves, is for ourselves. The remembrance that we have disconnected ourselves from this moment and position in our exploration of "the wanting to be somewhere else and somewhenelse", and thus we feel disconnected from all positions and all times and al beings. For all beings in all of existance will allways be right here and now, and they know you will also one day return to this moment. Willingly or unwillingly. For there is nowhere else to be but right here and now. Edited September 29, 2012 by Everything Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yondaime109 Posted September 29, 2012 Sorry man, If it makes you feel better she'll be reincarnated again. Death is only temporary. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forestofemptiness Posted September 30, 2012 Our time here is precious, isn't it? Especially with other people. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DalTheJigsaw123 Posted January 20, 2013 Thanks everyone!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Birch Posted January 20, 2013 Sorry to hear about your friend Leon. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mYTHmAKER Posted January 20, 2013 sorry for your loss Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mal Posted January 21, 2013 car accident poem  by ~samanthashaeadkins, Dec 5, 2011, 5:45:15 PMJournals / Personal  You're still here in my heart and mind, still making me laugh cause your stories live on. I hold you in a thought and I can feel you. I feel you and this gives me strength and courage. The tears I have cried for you could flood the earth and I know you have wiped each one away.  For you my friend, I promise you this, I will go on with my life and make you proud. I will always hold you in my heart. I promise you I will be missing you everyday till the end of time, but this is not my end and I can't hold myhead underwater....I need to breathe.  I need to love and miss you, but I also need to live because through me you will live, you will still laugh and love, you will still sing and dance, you will still hug and kiss.  You will forever be in our lives, you will forever be a brother, a sister, a friend. I am going to miss your shining face I think of you and wonder why?  I might cry or smile, but at the end of the day I am one day closer to you.... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DalTheJigsaw123 Posted January 22, 2013 Thank you everyone!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
