Appropriate thing to do for the death of a loved one

[skydog]

My nan died, im not overly upset, just wish the best for her, good reincarnation or whatever...if I belive in spirits, bardoes is there an appropriate thing to do, my mums the most upset, i decided to quietly and subtly give her a book of the tibetan book of living and dying she gave me 2 years ago but never read (although I dont like the idea of pushing ideas onto other people) what can i do lol or nothing

[Eric23]

Sorry to hear for your loss. Having been in your Mom's shoes I would say to just be there. She's going to have a lot of practical stuff thrown her way in a short period of time. Wills, funeral arrangements, doing something with the house/apartment, clothes, furniture, dealing with Grandpa (if he's still amongst us) will all require time and energy. Help out the best you can so she doesn't have to do all the work by herself. It will give you an opportunity to celebrate your nan's life and remember your family.