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  1. Everyone post some favorite quotes!

    What we must decide is perhaps how we are valuable,rather than how valuable we are. - Edgar Z. Friedenber One kind word can warm three winter months. - Japanese proverb The earth has music for those who listen. - William Shakespeare
  2. Absorb jing from sperm after ejaculation?

    Yangluchan - surely you mean absorbing the Jing from your sperm before ejaculation?.... Forgive me, have I been missing something!
  3. Erection problem

    Thankyou both songsofdistantearth and fiveelementtao - both extremely important revelations. I find that alot of men's erectile issues are psychological, cetainly at age 25. My suggestion is get out of your head (the upstairs one) and get into the downstairs dept - stop thinking about it too much! I have also found with many men, that once they enter into this work (whether the kundalini route or the Taoist route) their bodies' begin to respond to a more "conscious"way of lovemaking - follow your body's needs and requirements - don't force anything to happen, and go slow. Simply respect the process. In terms of exercise - I find squatting the best for powerful erections and longevity in the lovemaking arena. The squat should be perfomed differently from a regular squat where you would normally engage your glutes to lift you up. Try and use your Hui - yin (perineum) to pull you up - visualising a LONG length rising from there all the way up your centre towards and out of your head (like a tree trunk). I would say at this point to work with Taoist self-cultivation methods (including testicle massage)- with ejaculation only 1-2 times per week. Witch is correct - fish oil fish oil and more fish oil. Fresh ginger is also recommended - trash the pizza
  4. question about nonduality and sex

    Thanking you for that - it is rare to find someone so adequately equipped with the the language required for this kind of harmonious union with Self and significant others
  5. hello from south africa

    hey! feeling quite lonely here in a very under-subscribed community of Taoists. hope to meet some new and inspiring, like minded people * my main work is in Taoist sexual energy i am also a creator of beautiful things fiona*