Saso

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  1. HELP!

    Hello im an 19 year old from Slovenia. Have just finished high school and going to study electro engineering. I have had an interesting upbringing and am a atheist and a nihilist. I have a long term relationship with my girlfriend. I wanted to improve our sex life and after searching i found the book Taoist secrets of love: cultivating the male sexual energy by Mantak Chia. I have read the book and had began to practice testicle breathing and scrotal compression. Because I had some problems with SC i did a search and got really confused. So i want to ask you, since you have experiece: HOW BEST TO BEGGIN? I want do practice sexual tao and later move on to other stuff, since doing this is already new for me. I want to be able to last long in bed and bring amazing orgasms to me and my girlfriend. What is the best way to do this. Should I go by the book? Or as some have suggested open the MCO. Also what to do about sex and ejaculation? If you could post a schedual of how I should proced I would be most grateful. Much thanks
  2. Hello, pleas help

    Hello im an 19 year old from Slovenia. Have just finished high school and going to study electro engineering. I have had an interesting upbringing and am a atheist and a nihilist. I have a long term relationship with my girlfriend. I wanted to improve our sex life and after searching i found the book Taoist secrets of love: cultivating the male sexual energy by Mantak Chia. I have read the book and had began to practice testicle breathing and scrotal compression. Because I had some problems with SC i did a search and got really confused. So i want to ask you, since you have experiece: HOW BEST TO BEGGIN? I want do practice sexual tao and later move on to other stuff, since doing this is already new for me. I want to be able to last long in bed and bring amazing orgasms to me and my girlfriend. What is the best way to do this. Should I go by the book? Or as some have suggested open the MCO. Also what to do about sex and ejaculation? If you could post a schedual of how I should proced I would be most grateful. Much thanks
  3. HELP!

    Yes having a better sex life was my goal and i saw that the tao way was the best. I was also planning to start meditating, since it is helpful. And if i live healthier and longer that would be great. Spirituality is not my biggest priority, but I may become later when i have a little ecperiance in the tao. I would still like to know what is the best for a begginer ( most MCO source are a bit out of my league). I have decided to push the sexual kung fu back, and focus on the foundation. My only question is where to start building it? Which book are best for complete begginers? Pleas just answet that question, because i would like to get started Joeblast has given me a link for MCO but I dont understand it. I know im kinda naggy but just point me to the begginer guides or books so i can get started and progress. Oh and my girlfriend said that she would also like to try medidation and I see a real option for dual cultivation later on =)
  4. HELP!

    Thank you Well i have time and better start now =) In the mean time I plan to have the best possible relationship with my girlfriend and will definitly try improving my sex life, just not in the taoist way. And just to clarify I do not masturbate, since I do wish for my sex life to remain between my girlfriend and me About prostate massage... Well im liberal, so I will probably try it, hopefully with my girlfriend. Thank you so much. Only question I have is what is the best book for MCO for begginers =)
  5. HELP!

    PPS: Is Mantak Chias book Awaken Healing Energy through the Tao good or not for a beginner. I have come to the conclusion that without openin the MCO I am basicly doing everything for nothing, and have decided to open the MCO first. Is this a good book to start or do i go for ther books? Also answers to my previous post would be appreciated
  6. HELP!

    PS One more question. Is it safe to not ejaculate if I have not opened the MCO? I do have sex on a regular basis and have experienced pain in the testicles, when i avoided ejaculation. Also what about prostate massage? I have read on this forum that this is the best way to get full body orgasm. Any thoughts?
  7. HELP!

    Thank you all so much Correct me if im wrong but the way i understand it is: -live healthy ( good food, exercise, sleep) -meditate ( later MCO ) -edging ( avoid ejaculation ) -strenghten pelvic floor muscles What about testicle breathing and scrotal compression? Are some parts of Mantak Chias good or should I avoid it as a whole? Also i would like to mention that I do wish to involve my girlfriend later, but first I want to be able to last longer so we have something to work with. What are good book or places to find about this topic and opening the microcosmos orb ( is Mantak Chias book good here or not ) ?
  8. HELP!

    Yes I tried doing that and got completly overwhelmed by information. If you would kindly tell me where is the best place to start I will look it up. All i realy need is clarity because of the extent of the information on this site and maybe a mentor?